"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Guys i need some advice here.....this girl that i have been dating for about 3 weeks all the suddhen stopped calling me:( Its been 5 days since we last talked....i tried to call her then,but she hung up:( Should i call one last time?Im really want to see her again,dont know what went wrong.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by cfajason
Its been 5 days since we last talked....i tried to call her then,but she hung up:(
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Uhhh.... Seems to answer your question right there. Next.
 
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life is too short to deal with drama b*tches like this chic.

if you're friend didn't call you and when you called him he hung up on you what would be your reaction?

i'd consider him dead and move on.

so why would you show this chic any other kind of response?

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Unfortunately you'll never find out what went wrong other than it do go wrong so just move on.
 
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Might be a test. Just don't call her. Forget about her. Move on with life, work towards your goals, whatever they may be, and stay busy. If she's more than an attention wh0re and worth being around she'll call and say something along the lines of "where have YOU been?" in which case you can bust her balls and say "avoiding YOU!!!"

Bottom line: don't be clingy. Create some space between you and her. If she calls after a few weeks, awesome. If she doesn't, awesome. Just keep on working on YOURSELF despite what's happening in your love life. You = #1 don't forget it!
 
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Originally posted by cfajason
Guys i need some advice here.....this girl that i have been dating for about 3 weeks all the suddhen stopped calling me:( Its been 5 days since we last talked....i tried to call her then,but she hung up:( Should i call one last time?Im really want to see her again,dont know what went wrong.
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1st, kill the needy attitude, regardless of whats going on you can't become needy or its over, be calm about the situation, i think that a person that stops calling that sudden has problems communicating, if you did something wrong a normal person would tell you ( she didnt), if she found another guy a normal person would tell you (she didnt), so shes obviously not 100% in the emotional department. My suggestion is send her an email, tell her your sending the email as a friend, not as a boyfriend, tell her that there must be something wrong for her to be acting this irrational, and that since you cant get into her head, your not going to try to figure this one out (basically your saying, i am not going to bother with your crap), offer her your friendship, be polite, helpful, but not needy, and then say goodbye.

If she contacts you she will explain what happened, if she doesnt, shes a ****ing wacko, your lucky to get rid of her.
 
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Basically I agree with the last two responses, although it's rarely clear what is going on in situations like this. If you had a mutual friend maybe you could find out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She called me yesterday after i posted telling me she was working....anyways im gonna avoid her.
 
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