"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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should i call her to say whats up or set up a time to hang out?

aix237

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Ok so i messed around this chick we talked the next day saw each other next day real fast blah blah blah. We havent talked since saturday now its tuesday. Im thinking about callin her tomorrow but should i just call to say whats up real fast or ask her to hang out this weekened? I just dont want to give off too much interest. i think if i call and not ask her to hang out then it will fvck with her head. AlsoI dont wanna make it look like i just want azz.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Im not a huge fan of just calling out the of the blue to hang out, it catches her off guard and kind of forces her to answer. Just my opinion but i would try to open up small talk again maybe with a text or something and then when you get that going then u can ask her out.
 

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there's nothign wrong with showing interest, that's a big misconception

what's bad is showing neediness
 
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