"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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should i call her to say whats up or set up a time to hang out?

aix237

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Ok so i messed around this chick we talked the next day saw each other next day real fast blah blah blah. We havent talked since saturday now its tuesday. Im thinking about callin her tomorrow but should i just call to say whats up real fast or ask her to hang out this weekened? I just dont want to give off too much interest. i think if i call and not ask her to hang out then it will fvck with her head. AlsoI dont wanna make it look like i just want azz.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Im not a huge fan of just calling out the of the blue to hang out, it catches her off guard and kind of forces her to answer. Just my opinion but i would try to open up small talk again maybe with a text or something and then when you get that going then u can ask her out.
 

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there's nothign wrong with showing interest, that's a big misconception

what's bad is showing neediness
 
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