Ok so i messed around this chick we talked the next day saw each other next day real fast blah blah blah. We havent talked since saturday now its tuesday. Im thinking about callin her tomorrow but should i just call to say whats up real fast or ask her to hang out this weekened? I just dont want to give off too much interest. i think if i call and not ask her to hang out then it will fvck with her head. AlsoI dont wanna make it look like i just want azz.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
should i call her to say whats up or set up a time to hang out?
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