"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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should i call her to say whats up or set up a time to hang out?

aix237

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Ok so i messed around this chick we talked the next day saw each other next day real fast blah blah blah. We havent talked since saturday now its tuesday. Im thinking about callin her tomorrow but should i just call to say whats up real fast or ask her to hang out this weekened? I just dont want to give off too much interest. i think if i call and not ask her to hang out then it will fvck with her head. AlsoI dont wanna make it look like i just want azz.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sicx

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Im not a huge fan of just calling out the of the blue to hang out, it catches her off guard and kind of forces her to answer. Just my opinion but i would try to open up small talk again maybe with a text or something and then when you get that going then u can ask her out.
 

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there's nothign wrong with showing interest, that's a big misconception

what's bad is showing neediness
 
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