Ok so I have a girl I would boink from time to time and she's a pretty girl but after getting tired of dealing with her i just pretty much ghosted her as far as trying to have sex. Any creative ways to get back to banging her besides the hey stranger text? I must mention I work with her.
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Should I bring back an old plate?
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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You can try what this girl did to me at the weekend. The old - accidental dial over whatsapp then a "sorry accident" message. I didn't believe her but still played along with a "hello stranger, have you calmed down now?" message.
She is now primed to come over to my place when we are both bored (she's a weekday bang).
She is now primed to come over to my place when we are both bored (she's a weekday bang).
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Are you out of options?
No reason to deal with a plate that brings drama into your life.
No reason to deal with a plate that brings drama into your life.
Honestly it's cause she pretty as hell and I also wanna make it sex and that's all.
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Don't listen to Spidah, he's far sexier and has more plates than us mortals. If you approach it with either a take it or leave it, you won't get far. You've lost a majority of attraction and rapport that you built previously. Think of some hobby or interest she has, make up a witty and hilarious text and toss it out. End it with confident humor, "I got a free evening, want to join for happy hour? I promise you drinks with me are more fun than spending an hour with your boyfriend". - Confident Humor.
This is a scarcity mindset.
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LOL, he's got other plates, no harm in messing around and attempting to game an old one.