"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Should I be bulking or cutting or what?

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Hello fellow hulks! :D

So here's my story.
No one in my family has never ever never had a nice body. That includes me aswell of course.
I'm looking to get a nice body, not getting BIIIG! (Yes, I know it doesn't happen in one day). I'm tall and a bit chubby I'd say, my "stats" are:

Age: 19 years old
Length: 195cm (6.4feet)
Weight: 92kg (203 pounds) (Correct me if the convertions are wrong)
Bf% I've got no idea but I can say that I don't look any strong and I've got a bit of a stomach.

I've really got not ONE idea what I should do except that I should workout. I've got a membership card on a gym where I'll start going on the end of the month.

The thing that's got me worrying is:
I read that constant long cardio eats you muscles but the problem is that I'm going to the army at January. Army = running = scrawny marathon looking guy which I'm not that interested in.

So basically what I'm asking for is: What should I do? Cut: Without enough muscles?! Bulk: To f'ing fat already?!

Peace, and may the force be with you!
P10
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Darn, how could I forget! I've got a problem with my lowerback.
I can't touch the ground with my hands if I stretch to the front.
 

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Overweight guys can easily build muscle and loose fat at the same time.

The army will be good for you, you will just have to customise your weight training program around it.

Read the posts in the vault sticky.
 

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Perfect10 said:
Darn, how could I forget! I've got a problem with my lowerback.
I can't touch the ground with my hands if I stretch to the front.
That just sounds like hamstring inflexibility.
 

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simon said:
That just sounds like hamstring inflexibility.
Hot diggity damn, you're right!
Got to go look if there is a way to get it away.
Thank alot!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Go over to stronglifts.com and search for some stretches. Leg swings would probably help.
 
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