"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Should I be bulking or cutting or what?

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Hello fellow hulks! :D

So here's my story.
No one in my family has never ever never had a nice body. That includes me aswell of course.
I'm looking to get a nice body, not getting BIIIG! (Yes, I know it doesn't happen in one day). I'm tall and a bit chubby I'd say, my "stats" are:

Age: 19 years old
Length: 195cm (6.4feet)
Weight: 92kg (203 pounds) (Correct me if the convertions are wrong)
Bf% I've got no idea but I can say that I don't look any strong and I've got a bit of a stomach.

I've really got not ONE idea what I should do except that I should workout. I've got a membership card on a gym where I'll start going on the end of the month.

The thing that's got me worrying is:
I read that constant long cardio eats you muscles but the problem is that I'm going to the army at January. Army = running = scrawny marathon looking guy which I'm not that interested in.

So basically what I'm asking for is: What should I do? Cut: Without enough muscles?! Bulk: To f'ing fat already?!

Peace, and may the force be with you!
P10
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Darn, how could I forget! I've got a problem with my lowerback.
I can't touch the ground with my hands if I stretch to the front.
 
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Overweight guys can easily build muscle and loose fat at the same time.

The army will be good for you, you will just have to customise your weight training program around it.

Read the posts in the vault sticky.
 
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Perfect10 said:
Darn, how could I forget! I've got a problem with my lowerback.
I can't touch the ground with my hands if I stretch to the front.
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That just sounds like hamstring inflexibility.
 
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simon said:
That just sounds like hamstring inflexibility.
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Hot diggity damn, you're right!
Got to go look if there is a way to get it away.
Thank alot!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Go over to stronglifts.com and search for some stretches. Leg swings would probably help.
 
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