"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Should I ask her about the play?

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I went to my school's play with a couple of my friends to get some Extra Credit. Anyway, when I wasn't asleep, I noticed this girl whose decent and decided I'm going to number game her MON. Should I bring up the play when I approach her? I don't want to look like a stalker..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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say something like i went to the play and thought it was pretty good, how bout you, did u see it?

if the play was played consecutively, liike friday-sunday, ask her which day she saw it in, etc etc.
 
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nek08 said:
say something like i went to the play and thought it was pretty good, how bout you, did u see it?

if the play was played consecutively, liike friday-sunday, ask her which day she saw it in, etc etc.
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You don't need to bring it up, if you don't, it'll just be like a normal cold approach. It's a decent talking point, though.

Don't ask her which day she saw it, since if she saw you there, she'll be creeped out (possibly.)
 
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how will she be creeped out if YOU didn't see her, it'll make for a conversation
 
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