"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should I ask her about the play?

Pdizzzzzzle

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I went to my school's play with a couple of my friends to get some Extra Credit. Anyway, when I wasn't asleep, I noticed this girl whose decent and decided I'm going to number game her MON. Should I bring up the play when I approach her? I don't want to look like a stalker..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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nek08

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say something like i went to the play and thought it was pretty good, how bout you, did u see it?

if the play was played consecutively, liike friday-sunday, ask her which day she saw it in, etc etc.
 

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nek08 said:
say something like i went to the play and thought it was pretty good, how bout you, did u see it?

if the play was played consecutively, liike friday-sunday, ask her which day she saw it in, etc etc.
You don't need to bring it up, if you don't, it'll just be like a normal cold approach. It's a decent talking point, though.

Don't ask her which day she saw it, since if she saw you there, she'll be creeped out (possibly.)
 

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how will she be creeped out if YOU didn't see her, it'll make for a conversation
 
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