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Should I ask her about the play?

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I went to my school's play with a couple of my friends to get some Extra Credit. Anyway, when I wasn't asleep, I noticed this girl whose decent and decided I'm going to number game her MON. Should I bring up the play when I approach her? I don't want to look like a stalker..
 

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say something like i went to the play and thought it was pretty good, how bout you, did u see it?

if the play was played consecutively, liike friday-sunday, ask her which day she saw it in, etc etc.
 

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nek08 said:
say something like i went to the play and thought it was pretty good, how bout you, did u see it?

if the play was played consecutively, liike friday-sunday, ask her which day she saw it in, etc etc.
You don't need to bring it up, if you don't, it'll just be like a normal cold approach. It's a decent talking point, though.

Don't ask her which day she saw it, since if she saw you there, she'll be creeped out (possibly.)
 

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how will she be creeped out if YOU didn't see her, it'll make for a conversation
 
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