Should a man ever seek emotional security in a woman?

[corrector]

"Lowering standards " as in laying up with a more normal female and not a status conscious party girl. More normal doesn't mean it's a grotesque person. Her personality is better that the status girl. She just doesn't look like a popular slut or a porn star. I hope your not jagging off to porn over there.

I never said was chasing status conscious party girl or even go to or have an interest in going to parties. Of course I am all for dealing with any normal, not grotesque, not on meds, healthy woman. Where would I suggest otherwise or where did I suggest otherwise? I would not be into a "too bright" type of women. Whatever impression you may have of me or my standards is not true in the slightest!

I only fap to escort pics. On Mondays Chinese or Asian only, Tuesdays dark skinned Blacks, Wednesday light skinned Blacks and mixed, Thursdays Native women, Friday Arab women or middle east, Saturdays Indian, Sundays Arabic again. This only started last week but may stop soon as I get disgusted by this whole thing.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I never said was chasing status conscious party girl or even go to or have an interest in going to parties. Of course I am all for dealing with any normal, not grotesque, not on meds, healthy woman. Where would I suggest otherwise or where did I suggest otherwise? I would not be into a "too bright" type of women. Whatever impression you may have of me or my standards is not true in the slightest!

I only fap to escort pics. On Mondays Chinese or Asian only, Tuesdays dark skinned Blacks, Wednesday light skinned Blacks and mixed, Thursdays Native women, Friday Arab women or middle east, Saturdays Indian, Sundays Arabic again. This only started last week but may stop soon as I get disgusted by this whole thing.

Try not fapping for 3 weeks. I get a noticeable confidence boost due to self control and self respect.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I never said was chasing status conscious party girl or even go to or have an interest in going to parties. Of course I am all for dealing with any normal, not grotesque, not on meds, healthy woman. Where would I suggest otherwise or where did I suggest otherwise? I would not be into a "too bright" type of women. Whatever impression you may have of me or my standards is not true in the slightest!

I only fap to escort pics. On Mondays Chinese or Asian only, Tuesdays dark skinned Blacks, Wednesday light skinned Blacks and mixed, Thursdays Native women, Friday Arab women or middle east, Saturdays Indian, Sundays Arabic again. This only started last week but may stop soon as I get disgusted by this whole thing.

Bro. If a "too bright " one is way into you it feels great. Alot of spark and energy there.

 

[corrector]

Try not fapping for 3 weeks. I get a noticeable confidence boost due to self control and self respect.

By fapping I am assuming no escort pics while fapping as opposed to fapping in itself? There has already been at least three week intervals which have passed through the summer where there was no fap for at least three weeks and I have not really noticed anything different. A whole summer just passed.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

By fapping I am assuming no escort pics while fapping as opposed to fapping in itself? There has already been at least three week intervals which have passed through the summer where there was no fap for at least three weeks and I have not really noticed anything different. A whole summer just passed.

No fapping = zero jagging off to female images.

Don't waste your attention on porn or near porn and no masterbation. The confidence and energy is noticeable by day 9-10 for me.

Sex is OK.

 

[corrector]

No fapping = zero jagging off to female images.

Don't waste your attention on porn or near porn and no masterbation. The confidence and energy is noticeable by day 9-10 for me.

Sex is OK.

Like I said I tried that and no results. If you noticed something then it works for you. I have tried it and have not noticed anything eventful. I notice I am less thirsty when I restarted last week Monday. As long as I dont go over the top with this I think it makes me more sexual as opposed to less when its avoided entirely.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Like I said I tried that and no results. If you noticed something then it works for you. I have tried it and have not noticed anything eventful. I notice I am less thirsty when I restarted last week Monday. As long as I dont go over the top with this I think it makes me more sexual as opposed to less when its avoided entirely.

Agree agree and agree. If it makes zero difference on you then don't do it. On some men it makes a very noticable difference.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

As the title says, is vulnerability and having a woman be your shoulder to cry on ever a good or acceptable idea? I know it seems rudimentary, but I seem to see happy couples behave in that fashion.

No!

If your parents or your cat dies, you may cry. But be your own emotional security.

NEVER cry in front of your woman about anything short then actual death happening!

NEVER EVER cry in front of your woman because of anything she said or did!

IF you need to cry, pull back, be alone, deal with it for an hour and come back.

 

[Lookatu]

WTF is this with Men and Cats? LOL That's twice that it was mentioned in this thread. I dunno, I'd think I'd probably cry more if it was a dog vs. a cat. But then again, I didn't cry when either my cat or dog died. I was sad though when my dog died. Cat, not so much...