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Yea crying when you fell broken because of death of a loved one is ofcourse normal but remember, never, ever cry because of your SO. Im not trying to be a duche but as soon as you drop one tear in front of your gf because of her, its over for you. She will never look you the same way as she did before and will losse respect for you in an instant.As the title says, is vulnerability and having a woman be your shoulder to cry on ever a good or acceptable idea? I know it seems rudimentary, but I seem to see happy couples behave in that fashion.
Agree with all except with the anger part, actually I believe that never showing anger is a malus not a bonus.Women may say that they want men to be emotional, but you should not be overly emotional in front of women. This includes bitching, crying or getting angry. If you can endure it, then endure it. 'Don't you cry, boy.' is still valid.
I don't think there are many woman out there who would stick around a man who was a crybaby long enough to form a happy relationship. Women will tolerate this type of behavior for a short period of time. Happy couples can endure it because the woman knows that her man will stand up every time he falls down, because he's proven that's the kind of man that he is, and she knows the behavior isn't normal or permanent. I've literally watched this happen to my own parents who are very happy together.
It's when a man assumes victimhood and starts making excuses for his failure that he becomes pitiful. This is the kind of behavior that makes women check out.
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Agreed.Agree with all except with the anger part, actually I believe that never showing anger is a malus not a bonus.
Controlled anger is a huge plus, it shows that you have the right emotions to deal with disrespect but at the same time you can control them and use them to get strenght out of it.
Let me clear the air. I've had quite a few intelligent GF's and wives. So I never thought women as a whole were "dumb". As usual there are many different classes and types of people in the manosphere. There are also many types and classes of people in the female sphere. Women friends can be "ok". You need some male friends too though.Simple: have good female friends. A lot of these dudes on here don't believe in female friends, why? because they simply don't have any. Trust me, its a fuccin amazing blessing to have female friends. Take it from a guy who used to be completely mysognistic to the point I literally thought women were dumber than men for the longest. I used to think that's why they didn't get difficult jobs, or why they didn't play video games. I also looked at them all like objects and would never really hang with them or talk to them, just bone. Thank for **** sake that life changed me for the better. I was a complete menace growing up..
I think that it goes without saying that you need male friends. "Female friends can be "ok"." <-- This is simply your perspective. For myself, female friends are great because they always bring other women around, especially to parties/potlucks/get togethers. Besides that, it's great social value.. anywhere you go. It's on another level than going out with just a guy or a group of guys. All you need is one girl with you to make other girls notice. Now, if you have a few, guess what? Even more attention and curiosity "whos this guy, with those girls".. (been there HUNDREDS of times, thanks to my friends).. now if you go out with all ur friends, which we used to do alot, its not necessarily better but its great social value ofc. Now, the only problem with my female friends is, not all of them like going to the clubs.Let me clear the air. I've had quite a few intelligent GF's and wives. So I never thought women as a whole were "dumb". As usual there are many different classes and types of people in the manosphere. There are also many types and classes of people in the female sphere. Women friends can be "ok". You need some male friends too though.