Some DJ look young but they are old, and when a girl is attracted to them initially, they can lose interest after knowing how old the DJ is so the DJ wouldn't get the chance to use their skills. Likewise, if a DJ looks much older than their age, but are really young, girls are also turn off by that as well. So should a DJ lie about their age to get the females? Or should DJs come clean at the start?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Should a DJ lie about their age?
- Thread starter Sir Don
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Smooth Player 056
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Some guys may say "never lie," I disagree. If your intentions are a one night stand, f- buddy, short term stuff....then LIE about your age. If your looking for something more like a LTR, or marrige DEFINETLY tell from the start, because their gonna find out sooner or later.
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suikeisuru
Don Juan
I usually would find out her age first and make her beg for my age through use of C&F.
syncmaster
Master Don Juan
I usually say if think it might be a problem. "I'm too old for you" and leave it at that. They don't need to know.
Or make a joke of it and tell her to
"never ask a lady her age"
and do the gay hand flip thing.
Or make a joke of it and tell her to
"never ask a lady her age"
and do the gay hand flip thing.
Iamnotacrook
Senior Don Juan
In other words, if your intentions are evil, sin is okay.
Lie about your age. What for?
1. If you go for women that much younger than you, you're effectively taking advantage of them. I don't care who you are, manipulating women is not a joke, and it can get you killed.
I am 19. I stay within my range. Right now it's 18-21.
2. If a woman goes for a guy that much younger than her, obviously she's a bit ****ed in the head, eh? Either a skank, attention-*****, manipulator, brags to friends, etc.
Same reason men do it, really. Hm. Interesting thought.
If that's your game, whatever.
Me, personally... I dont go rewarding ****ty behavior.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Man Of Adventure
Master Don Juan
"Im old enough to be your father." 
You dont have to answer that question if youre not comfortable and hell, even if ya are comfortable about tellin her....just give a girl an answer that will stick a good feeling in their head about you first.
You dont have to answer that question if youre not comfortable and hell, even if ya are comfortable about tellin her....just give a girl an answer that will stick a good feeling in their head about you first.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
Why not just be vague from the start and have them keep guessing. If you wanna be honest with your age then so be it, there's nothing wrong. For those that want to go for the "PLAYA PIMP STYLEZ 2000" way, then lie accordingly.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
I'm 21, but look like I'm 28. I often use that to my advantage when I'm picking up thight assed secretaries. I never tell them my age and they assume I'm 25+.
Men don't lie about their age. They are proud of it!
For a man, age is fine suit. It is the bling bling that puts the chizzel on your nizzle. (sorry to all the Snoops out there if I got that wrong)
You have to learn how to wear your age.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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