Some DJ look young but they are old, and when a girl is attracted to them initially, they can lose interest after knowing how old the DJ is so the DJ wouldn't get the chance to use their skills. Likewise, if a DJ looks much older than their age, but are really young, girls are also turn off by that as well. So should a DJ lie about their age to get the females? Or should DJs come clean at the start?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Should a DJ lie about their age?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Smooth Player 056
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Some guys may say "never lie," I disagree. If your intentions are a one night stand, f- buddy, short term stuff....then LIE about your age. If your looking for something more like a LTR, or marrige DEFINETLY tell from the start, because their gonna find out sooner or later.
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suikeisuru
Don Juan
I usually would find out her age first and make her beg for my age through use of C&F.
syncmaster
Master Don Juan
I usually say if think it might be a problem. "I'm too old for you" and leave it at that. They don't need to know.
Or make a joke of it and tell her to
"never ask a lady her age"
and do the gay hand flip thing.
Or make a joke of it and tell her to
"never ask a lady her age"
and do the gay hand flip thing.
Iamnotacrook
Senior Don Juan
In other words, if your intentions are evil, sin is okay.
Lie about your age. What for?
1. If you go for women that much younger than you, you're effectively taking advantage of them. I don't care who you are, manipulating women is not a joke, and it can get you killed.
I am 19. I stay within my range. Right now it's 18-21.
2. If a woman goes for a guy that much younger than her, obviously she's a bit ****ed in the head, eh? Either a skank, attention-*****, manipulator, brags to friends, etc.
Same reason men do it, really. Hm. Interesting thought.
If that's your game, whatever.
Me, personally... I dont go rewarding ****ty behavior.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Man Of Adventure
Master Don Juan
"Im old enough to be your father." 
You dont have to answer that question if youre not comfortable and hell, even if ya are comfortable about tellin her....just give a girl an answer that will stick a good feeling in their head about you first.
You dont have to answer that question if youre not comfortable and hell, even if ya are comfortable about tellin her....just give a girl an answer that will stick a good feeling in their head about you first.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
Why not just be vague from the start and have them keep guessing. If you wanna be honest with your age then so be it, there's nothing wrong. For those that want to go for the "PLAYA PIMP STYLEZ 2000" way, then lie accordingly.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
I'm 21, but look like I'm 28. I often use that to my advantage when I'm picking up thight assed secretaries. I never tell them my age and they assume I'm 25+.
Men don't lie about their age. They are proud of it!
For a man, age is fine suit. It is the bling bling that puts the chizzel on your nizzle. (sorry to all the Snoops out there if I got that wrong)
You have to learn how to wear your age.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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