Some DJ look young but they are old, and when a girl is attracted to them initially, they can lose interest after knowing how old the DJ is so the DJ wouldn't get the chance to use their skills. Likewise, if a DJ looks much older than their age, but are really young, girls are also turn off by that as well. So should a DJ lie about their age to get the females? Or should DJs come clean at the start?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Should a DJ lie about their age?
- Thread starter Sir Don
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Smooth Player 056
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Some guys may say "never lie," I disagree. If your intentions are a one night stand, f- buddy, short term stuff....then LIE about your age. If your looking for something more like a LTR, or marrige DEFINETLY tell from the start, because their gonna find out sooner or later.
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suikeisuru
Don Juan
I usually would find out her age first and make her beg for my age through use of C&F.
syncmaster
Master Don Juan
I usually say if think it might be a problem. "I'm too old for you" and leave it at that. They don't need to know.
Or make a joke of it and tell her to
"never ask a lady her age"
and do the gay hand flip thing.
Or make a joke of it and tell her to
"never ask a lady her age"
and do the gay hand flip thing.
Iamnotacrook
Senior Don Juan
In other words, if your intentions are evil, sin is okay.
Lie about your age. What for?
1. If you go for women that much younger than you, you're effectively taking advantage of them. I don't care who you are, manipulating women is not a joke, and it can get you killed.
I am 19. I stay within my range. Right now it's 18-21.
2. If a woman goes for a guy that much younger than her, obviously she's a bit ****ed in the head, eh? Either a skank, attention-*****, manipulator, brags to friends, etc.
Same reason men do it, really. Hm. Interesting thought.
If that's your game, whatever.
Me, personally... I dont go rewarding ****ty behavior.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Man Of Adventure
Master Don Juan
"Im old enough to be your father." 
You dont have to answer that question if youre not comfortable and hell, even if ya are comfortable about tellin her....just give a girl an answer that will stick a good feeling in their head about you first.
You dont have to answer that question if youre not comfortable and hell, even if ya are comfortable about tellin her....just give a girl an answer that will stick a good feeling in their head about you first.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
Why not just be vague from the start and have them keep guessing. If you wanna be honest with your age then so be it, there's nothing wrong. For those that want to go for the "PLAYA PIMP STYLEZ 2000" way, then lie accordingly.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
I'm 21, but look like I'm 28. I often use that to my advantage when I'm picking up thight assed secretaries. I never tell them my age and they assume I'm 25+.
Men don't lie about their age. They are proud of it!
For a man, age is fine suit. It is the bling bling that puts the chizzel on your nizzle. (sorry to all the Snoops out there if I got that wrong)
You have to learn how to wear your age.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
wowiehowie
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