"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Should a DJ lie about their age?

Sir Don

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Some DJ look young but they are old, and when a girl is attracted to them initially, they can lose interest after knowing how old the DJ is so the DJ wouldn't get the chance to use their skills. Likewise, if a DJ looks much older than their age, but are really young, girls are also turn off by that as well. So should a DJ lie about their age to get the females? Or should DJs come clean at the start?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Smooth Player 056

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Some guys may say "never lie," I disagree. If your intentions are a one night stand, f- buddy, short term stuff....then LIE about your age. If your looking for something more like a LTR, or marrige DEFINETLY tell from the start, because their gonna find out sooner or later.


Sincerely
Smooth Player 056
 

suikeisuru

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I usually would find out her age first and make her beg for my age through use of C&F.
 

syncmaster

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I usually say if think it might be a problem. "I'm too old for you" and leave it at that. They don't need to know.
Or make a joke of it and tell her to
"never ask a lady her age"
and do the gay hand flip thing.
 

Iamnotacrook

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Some guys may say "never lie," I disagree. If your intentions are a one night stand, f- buddy, short term stuff....then LIE about your age. If your looking for something more like a LTR, or marrige DEFINETLY tell from the start, because their gonna find out sooner or later.
In other words, if your intentions are evil, sin is okay.

Lie about your age. What for?

1. If you go for women that much younger than you, you're effectively taking advantage of them. I don't care who you are, manipulating women is not a joke, and it can get you killed.

I am 19. I stay within my range. Right now it's 18-21.

2. If a woman goes for a guy that much younger than her, obviously she's a bit ****ed in the head, eh? Either a skank, attention-*****, manipulator, brags to friends, etc.

Same reason men do it, really. Hm. Interesting thought.

If that's your game, whatever.

Me, personally... I dont go rewarding ****ty behavior.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Man Of Adventure

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"Im old enough to be your father." :D

You dont have to answer that question if youre not comfortable and hell, even if ya are comfortable about tellin her....just give a girl an answer that will stick a good feeling in their head about you first.
 

DonJuanMonk

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Some guys may say "never lie," I disagree. If your intentions are a one night stand, f- buddy, short term stuff....then LIE about your age. If your looking for something more like a LTR, or marrige DEFINETLY tell from the start, because their gonna find out sooner or later.


Sincerely
Smooth Player 056
Why not just be vague from the start and have them keep guessing. If you wanna be honest with your age then so be it, there's nothing wrong. For those that want to go for the "PLAYA PIMP STYLEZ 2000" way, then lie accordingly.
 

seanchai

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Originally posted by Man Of Adventure
"Im old enough to be your father." :D
I alternate that with "I'm twelve", both always said with a straight face.
 

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I'm 21, but look like I'm 28. I often use that to my advantage when I'm picking up thight assed secretaries. I never tell them my age and they assume I'm 25+.
 

00Kevin

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Originally posted by Sir Don
Some DJ look young but they are old, and when a girl is attracted to them initially, they can lose interest after knowing how old the DJ is so the DJ wouldn't get the chance to use their skills. Likewise, if a DJ looks much older than their age, but are really young, girls are also turn off by that as well. So should a DJ lie about their age to get the females? Or should DJs come clean at the start?

Men don't lie about their age. They are proud of it!

For a man, age is fine suit. It is the bling bling that puts the chizzel on your nizzle. (sorry to all the Snoops out there if I got that wrong)

You have to learn how to wear your age.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Some guys may say "never lie," I disagree. If your intentions are a one night stand, f- buddy, short term stuff....then LIE about your age. If your looking for something more like a LTR, or marrige DEFINETLY tell from the start, because their gonna find out sooner or later.


Sincerely
Smooth Player 056
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