Shocked at this desperation!

[Rainman4707]

One of my female friends on facebook just posted this that a guy had messaged her. Thought i'd share it as it is desperate. Grammar & spelling are as he wrote. To be fair the guy looked pretty good looking. He looked a decent guy.

22:15 Hi, bad times for me if someone as hot & beautiful as you, starts thinking about changing teams lol that would be criminal ha you speak your mind & you look a million dollars. Any man would be lucky to be with you or any woman if theres no going back.

01:00 Its 100% from the heart & im not saying it either, i mean it too & i dont mind that you're not interested, but i will regret not telling you the fact of how much i want to take you. you should let me take you out, just give me a chance. If ya not persuaded after that then no probs.

01:26 Listen though am not just after what you think. I want to take you out, you could bring a freind & if its not for you then yous have scored a free meal & then i wont contact or message you again. Whats the harm in that.

04:26 Im 32 years old with two kids who live with me full time. I swear i just want to take you out once. I just want a chance, i just want a chance to take you out, i'd treat you with absolute respect, i swear on my kids that i wouldnt take the piss or anything you werent comfortable with.
I know that it is worth the risk. Coz at any time if its not right youd only have to say. I only want a chance. If it dosent work at least ive tried. Id rather you tell me to do one & that ive got no chance at all but i really want to show you how special i think you are. One chance & i swear if youre not interested after then tell me & that will be that. But at least i would have tried & failed.I n life you should always give it a chance to see if it will work. Dont judge a book by its cover just come & meet me. you can pick where.

04:45 - I dont know if im just pissing in the wind. If there is no chance then just tell me. Im a big boy i can handle it. Just tell me, Id be super dissapointed, but i could handle it. You pick somewhere anywhere you want. I'll pick you up & drop you off wherever you want. Just give me a chance..i will take you wherever you want. You might even want me to take you out again, you never know.

10:10 I hope you dont think im after only one thing. Its not like that at all. I want to take you out get to know you. If your not interested just tell me or i will keep trying. You're defo worth it though..stunnning.

12 :52 You get your kids scooter back

The more you ignore me, the more i want you, seriously want you bad, tell me to fu*k off & i will

The woman then replied "**** off" to which he replied :- "see that wasnt so hard, still think you're lush though."

 

[Serenity]

Damn, if she uses Reddit, tell her to post it at r/cringepics. She'll probably get loads of karma. Just don't forget to censor personal information.

Looks ≠ attractiveness, unless a man has an attractive personality to go with it.

 

[lamath]

He is trolling imo

If not it is pathetic seems like a lack of social awarness,

 

[The Duke]

BigDave is that you? Is that the best Guru could teach you?

 

[Serenity]

He is trolling imo

Tell me what man would troll like this. This isn't a troll, these guys exist and are fairly common.

If not it is pathetic seems like a lack of social awarness

I'd say this for sure, again it's fairly common.

 

[In2theGame]

This is definitely not a troll. As soon as I started reading this, It immediately reminded me of a night not too long ago I was laying down with one of the Girls im seeing on her bed, she starts giggling and tells me to read a text message from her friend and what a guy sent to her. It was VERY similar to this. He was going on about how he wants to take her on a date just one time to prove how good they would be together and how much he would love to be with her.

 

[R.U.G.]

Yea, my main check shows me her texts from her beta orbiters. It's brutal. She's said yea, it's sad, but funny at the same time. I don't even reply, and they still contact me. Am I a bad person? Of course I said yes. Pisses her off.

Even when I was in my 20's I never double texted a woman. If I never hear back from them, I let it be. Why would a man continuously text a woman who doesn't respond? I've read some of them... It really is sad to see. They seem beta, but good honest guys. Sad.

 

[AttackFormation]

Desperate guys do desperate things.

 

[zekko]

Any man would be lucky to be with you

This line jumped out at me because there's another thread where a girl says this to a guy, and the immediate suspicion is that she likely means it as an insult. There is no question that when the guy says it, he's sincere lol. But when a woman says it all these layers start to pop up.

But yeah, that dude is sad.

 

[In2theGame]

Yea, my main check shows me her texts from her beta orbiters. It's brutal. She's said yea, it's sad, but funny at the same time. I don't even reply, and they still contact me. Am I a bad person? Of course I said yes. Pisses her off.

Even when I was in my 20's I never double texted a woman. If I never hear back from them, I let it be. Why would a man continuously text a woman who doesn't respond? I've read some of them... It really is sad to see. They seem beta, but good honest guys. Sad.

This is what the digital age has turned many men into because of the ways of communication today. I remember in 1997 through 2001 I had my own phone line in my room and it was awesome because now friends or girls can call me during the middle of the night without the house phone ringing. So with that, I would be hesitant to call a girls home because I didn't want her father picking up so i avoided calling and this probably gave the impression to the girls that I was "aloof" and too busy to call her and spike her curiosity in me. I would get many girls calling me late at night and since there was no caller ID on my phone I would unintentionally say the wrong name when i picked up if i didn't fully recognize the voice. I would be like "Laura?" followed by 2 seconds of silence and she would reply "No! this is Jessica!" I would be thinking "Oh Fvck lol" but it showed high value because if I accidently said another girls name it meant I had other girls calling me too. All of this caused a chick who liked you to wonder about you, think about you, get curious about you and her interest would rise a ton because there was hardly any way for her to know what you are doing or where you stand since there was no facebook, No Texting, No Snapchat, No Tinder... None of that sh*t that we all have today.

Now.... FORGET IT! Women have an EXPLOSION of communications and validation with text messaging, social media, emails, etc. and more and more apps are being created daily that will increase this. I remember back in 2003, I forgot exactly what i said to a friend but I told him "When the internet starts growing, Dating is going to be a blessing and a curse" I saw it coming a long time ago because of my experience with girls i would be on the phone with and how they would have other guys calling (Remember that pause during your call and it was because someone else was trying to call?) Via. Call waiting or 2-way calling. Girls would tell me to hold and tell the other guy that she was busy and click back to get back into conversation with me. Now if that was happening like that back then, Imagine what it's like now.

 

[marmel75]

Lmao...I dont even know what to say to this. Even at my worst I wasn't doing this sh!t.

 

[lamath]

Who dafuk would think sending all those after no reply will end up in a date.
Even if desperate a guy should know he is not helping his case.

You cannot negotiate genuine desire.

I remember asking a really hot chick out when younger, it was a bit out of the blue and i think i surprised her a little bit sadly she turned me down..
I said ok have good night.

Living in a small town we did come by each other often and man every time she was ioi me, all my friend notice it too but i never talk to her again.
She knew i was interested before it was now her move.

 

[AttackFormation]

We who can maintain our individuality and self respect are an extreme minority. No contact by men is almost unheard of in practice

There's a thirst pandemic that you can't "see", but it's going on all around us. It honestly makes me feel despair when I see how many likes, messages, followers, compliments and beggings that AFCs trip over each other to give them. Need a way to deal with it. Even the fat girls that you guys aren't into but I am, and you think they're not getting any, I see them having dozens at the very least and more commonly than that having hundreds/thousands of followers and being flooded with validation and begging from guys, just like the rest of the women. It just feels hopeless...

 

[HankHill]

Sorry guys that was me...but I was just...so lonely.

LMAO.

 

[MatureDJ]

I would get many girls calling me late at night and since there was no caller ID on my phone I would unintentionally say the wrong name when i picked up if i didn't fully recognize the voice. I would be like "Laura?" followed by 2 seconds of silence and she would reply "No! this is Jessica!" I would be thinking "Oh Fvck lol" but it showed high value because if I accidently said another girls name it meant I had other girls calling me too.

No, it meant that you were an idiot.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

No, it meant that you were an idiot.

It meant he had females. On some females that mistake would amp their desire.

 

[zekko]

This is like that scene in Swingers where the guy keeps calling the girl's answering machine over and over. It's the same level of cluelessness.

 

[In2theGame]

No, it meant that you were an idiot.

lol How was I an idiot for making a mistake? I honestly didn't know who was calling me. it's not like it happened all the time but I would sometimes get something like "Who is *girls name*?" and i would reply "You sounded like someone else".

 

[mrgoodstuff]

lol How was I an idiot for making a mistake? I honestly didn't know who was calling me. it's not like it happened all the time but I would sometimes get something like "Who is *girls name*?" and i would reply "You sounded like someone else".

Back then was no caller id. Having them stack up meant he was in demand and had game.

 

[In2theGame]

Back then was no caller id. Having them stack up meant he was in demand and had game.

Yes and not to boost my ego but for a young guy, I was very smooth at conversation to the point I would get girls playing with their pvssies for me. Once I made 3 girls do it, It became a high for me to get girls on the phone and make them masturbate for me. All i had to do is get them to call me late at night and it was over.

Some would call and as I would be talking they would stay VERY quiet to the point that I would question if they were still on the phone so i would say "hello?" and they would let out a very subtle moan while saying "Yeyyyess im heree". At the very beginning I wasn't sure what was going on but after a while I could tell what was happening.