"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Shes not my type

toasttopper1879

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In this situation I reckon I might have overplayed the game too much.I've spent time flirting and buildng raport with a girl,while at the same time I've remained just that little bit out of reach to keep her guesing.
However all this has led to the girl thinking I have no interest in her.Recently she said she thought that she was nt my type and the odd compliment I drop she says I'm lying.
So whats the deal.Is she fishing for reasurrance or have I become too aloof for her.
As for the "I dont think I'm your type" comment,I had no answer to it and offered a lame "maybe" answer.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tazman

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Have you tried actually asking her out?
 

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Originally posted by toasttopper1879
In this situation I reckon I might have overplayed the game too much.I've spent time flirting and buildng raport with a girl,while at the same time I've remained just that little bit out of reach to keep her guesing.
However all this has led to the girl thinking I have no interest in her.Recently she said she thought that she was nt my type and the odd compliment I drop she says I'm lying.
So whats the deal.Is she fishing for reasurrance or have I become too aloof for her.
As for the "I dont think I'm your type" comment,I had no answer to it and offered a lame "maybe" answer.
Save your drama for your mama.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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shark

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I'd start showing a little more interest, and see how she responds or kinda let her know that she's doing OK or your somewhat INTERESTED in her.

Go ahead, ask her out. Tell her you guys should go out and have something to do.
 

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have you dated her?
 

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Originally posted by toasttopper1879
Recently she said she thought that she was nt my type and the odd compliment I drop she says I'm lying.
So whats the deal.Is she fishing for reasurrance or have I become too aloof for her.
She's trying to manipulate you into "persuading" her that she IS your type, aka pursuing her; the best response is, "You're right, you're NOT my type, but you're not too bad."
 
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