"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Shes not my type

toasttopper1879

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In this situation I reckon I might have overplayed the game too much.I've spent time flirting and buildng raport with a girl,while at the same time I've remained just that little bit out of reach to keep her guesing.
However all this has led to the girl thinking I have no interest in her.Recently she said she thought that she was nt my type and the odd compliment I drop she says I'm lying.
So whats the deal.Is she fishing for reasurrance or have I become too aloof for her.
As for the "I dont think I'm your type" comment,I had no answer to it and offered a lame "maybe" answer.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tazman

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Have you tried actually asking her out?
 

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Originally posted by toasttopper1879
In this situation I reckon I might have overplayed the game too much.I've spent time flirting and buildng raport with a girl,while at the same time I've remained just that little bit out of reach to keep her guesing.
However all this has led to the girl thinking I have no interest in her.Recently she said she thought that she was nt my type and the odd compliment I drop she says I'm lying.
So whats the deal.Is she fishing for reasurrance or have I become too aloof for her.
As for the "I dont think I'm your type" comment,I had no answer to it and offered a lame "maybe" answer.
Save your drama for your mama.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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shark

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I'd start showing a little more interest, and see how she responds or kinda let her know that she's doing OK or your somewhat INTERESTED in her.

Go ahead, ask her out. Tell her you guys should go out and have something to do.
 

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have you dated her?
 

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Originally posted by toasttopper1879
Recently she said she thought that she was nt my type and the odd compliment I drop she says I'm lying.
So whats the deal.Is she fishing for reasurrance or have I become too aloof for her.
She's trying to manipulate you into "persuading" her that she IS your type, aka pursuing her; the best response is, "You're right, you're NOT my type, but you're not too bad."
 
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