Been working on a girl for a while who seems pretty interested, when I asked what she looks for in a guy (She asked me about what i looked for in a girl first) i had almost every characteristic she listed off etc....but she's never been with a guy before, or even made out with one. How do you all think I should break the ice in this situation?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
She's never had a boyfriend...
- Thread starter DJoneday
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
RaMar
Senior Don Juan
I don't think you should do anything differently. Maybe take it a little slower then normal as she will probably take a little longer to get used to things then girls who have done it before. Go for it man.
Vigilante7
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what a coicidence
Five 16yr olders post ina row.......\\
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
RaMar
Senior Don Juan
Getting advice from 16 year olds when you are 16 is better then getting 4 replied from people from different ages. For instance 4 replies for people of the ages of 13, 16, 19, 23 is worse then 4 replies from people from all the same age as you.
I that pretty geeky, oh well.
