Been working on a girl for a while who seems pretty interested, when I asked what she looks for in a guy (She asked me about what i looked for in a girl first) i had almost every characteristic she listed off etc....but she's never been with a guy before, or even made out with one. How do you all think I should break the ice in this situation?
"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
She's never had a boyfriend...
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
RaMar
Senior Don Juan
I don't think you should do anything differently. Maybe take it a little slower then normal as she will probably take a little longer to get used to things then girls who have done it before. Go for it man.
Vigilante7
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what a coicidence
Five 16yr olders post ina row.......\\
Five 16yr olders post ina row.......\\
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
RaMar
Senior Don Juan
Getting advice from 16 year olds when you are 16 is better then getting 4 replied from people from different ages. For instance 4 replies for people of the ages of 13, 16, 19, 23 is worse then 4 replies from people from all the same age as you.
I that pretty geeky, oh well.
