Been working on a girl for a while who seems pretty interested, when I asked what she looks for in a guy (She asked me about what i looked for in a girl first) i had almost every characteristic she listed off etc....but she's never been with a guy before, or even made out with one. How do you all think I should break the ice in this situation?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She's never had a boyfriend...
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
RaMar
Senior Don Juan
I don't think you should do anything differently. Maybe take it a little slower then normal as she will probably take a little longer to get used to things then girls who have done it before. Go for it man.
Vigilante7
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what a coicidence
Five 16yr olders post ina row.......\\
Five 16yr olders post ina row.......\\
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
RaMar
Senior Don Juan
Getting advice from 16 year olds when you are 16 is better then getting 4 replied from people from different ages. For instance 4 replies for people of the ages of 13, 16, 19, 23 is worse then 4 replies from people from all the same age as you.
I that pretty geeky, oh well.
