"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by penkitten
most people are afraid of stds or getting some dirty stuff on the shlong.

no matter what you choose , to use a condom or not for anal, never ever ever do anal without a condom and then stick it in a slit!! dieases are spread this way. its worse than doing anal and then having her stick it in her mouth.

never put your fingers there and then touch her slit!! this is bad news.

ok done being the den mother for the nite.. haha
i know for sure that this is not to be done. even if you wear a condom, you should never ever put it inside her @sshole and then put it into her pùssy. i don't think this is what those guys were talkin about, but thanks anyway:D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hahaha are you still that thick headed?!

Like I said it's three easy steps.

1. Go to ANY search engine
2. Type in "Sexual Education"
3. READ!

I got nearly 12 million hits on two different engines. If you're too lazy to do that then you really shouldn't be having sex anyway. My god do you want us to hold your hand as you do it? Grow up! Knowledge of sexual safety should be YOUR number 1 concern, and if you don't take it serously then why would you expect anything from us but laughter?
 

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Originally posted by PRMoon
hahaha are you still that thick headed?!

Like I said it's three easy steps.

1. Go to ANY search engine
2. Type in "Sexual Education"
3. READ!

I got nearly 12 million hits on two different engines. If you're too lazy to do that then you really shouldn't be having sex anyway. My god do you want us to hold your hand as you do it? Grow up! Knowledge of sexual safety should be YOUR number 1 concern, and if you don't take it serously then why would you expect anything from us but laughter?
man, i looked for that on google and every results i opened, told me that i shouldn't do anal sex without a condom, since it's easy as fùck to get STDs that way. i found no other reason, so please tell me yours
 

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Originally posted by rgeere

You are rubbing your d;ck into sh;t and causing a bacteria culture to grow up into your urinary track.
Although *I* personally would like to have anal sex without a condom, just to try it out.
 

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Originally posted by Jay-X
man, i looked for that on google and every results i opened, told me that i shouldn't do anal sex without a condom, since it's easy as fùck to get STDs that way. i found no other reason, so please tell me yours
Uhhhh do you really need ANOTHER reason? STD's can straight up kill you! Why would you need another reason? Death is the ultimate reason to protect yourself. Get with it man!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by PRMoon
Uhhhh do you really need ANOTHER reason? STD's can straight up kill you! Why would you need another reason? Death is the ultimate reason to protect yourself. Get with it man!
STDs can be contracted if your partner already has them. i know my partner, since i've been with her for the last year. she's STDs free, since i'm the one who took her virginity. i can be an idiot, in relation to sexual education, but i would never have done anal sex without a condom, if i weren't sure that she was STDs free... do you think you are on the right side yet?
 

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Even if your partner doesn't have and STD, there are thousands of tiny micro organisims living within the rectum that can enter your urinary track and cause major infections. In all likely hood they will not kill you but you will experience extreme pain while urinating as well as experience blood mixed in with your urine.

Doesn't sound like a risk I'd be willing to take, but then again I don't enjoy pain too much. To have a UTI cured you'll have to take a series of pills and have multiple trips to the doctors. I also don't like haveing my wallet hit, but again that's just me.

Do what you want to, but there are major conciquences to having sex without a condom. It's easy to use one and it just makes good sense to wrap it up during sex.
 

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Originally posted by PRMoon
Even if your partner doesn't have and STD, there are thousands of tiny micro organisims living within the rectum that can enter your urinary track and cause major infections. In all likely hood they will not kill you but you will experience extreme pain while urinating as well as experience blood mixed in with your urine.

Doesn't sound like a risk I'd be willing to take, but then again I don't enjoy pain too much. To have a UTI cured you'll have to take a series of pills and have multiple trips to the doctors. I also don't like haveing my wallet hit, but again that's just me.

Do what you want to, but there are major conciquences to having sex without a condom. It's easy to use one and it just makes good sense to wrap it up during sex.
i don't give, here in italy we don't have to pay for medical cures.

just joking:) it would have been better if you had told me all this stuff before, so we would have avoided tens of stupid replies. i did not know that you could get diseases this way, but i trust you, thanks for your help!
 

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Originally posted by rgeere
This is bigotry. If you were a european catholic, you would know that anal sex and sex outside of the period date are used as ways to compensate for the fact that birth control is considered murder.

It is an oxymoron, but that is the way it works in catholic societies.
I went to Catholic school. I am not a bigot. This couple is UNMARRIED. in Catholic Doctrine, having any form of sexual relations BEFORE YOU ARE MARRIED IS CONSIDERDED A SIN. End of discussion. If you knowingly have sexual relations and you keep doing it and don't repent, you shouldn't call yourself a Catholic because you are not doing what a Catholic does, therefore you are a hypocrite.

And I am aware of the non-hormonal and non-condom forms of "birth control". I know how to tell if i am ovulating or not. There is the mucus test, the temperature test and the calendar test. I know that MARRIED Catholics practice them.
 

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Originally posted by rgeere
This is bigotry. If you were a european catholic, you would know that anal sex and sex outside of the period date are used as ways to compensate for the fact that birth control is considered murder.

It is an oxymoron, but that is the way it works in catholic societies.
With pre-marital relations? If that's true, euro-Catholics are hypocrites.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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are you a retard jay or just trying to be one?
 

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Originally posted by Centaurion
are you a retard jay or just trying to be one?
i think am, but why you sayin this?

anyway, luvmyarmy is right, catholic doctrine says that you should have sex just to procreate. recently, the Vatican permitted sex into marriage, even if it's not to procreate. what i'm doing with my girlfriend is against catholic doctrine and i know. anyway, it's not against the 10 commandments, but just against a Church's law, which is not considered to get you to hell
 

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Um, it is against one of the 10 Commandments. It's committing adultery.

And if i were you i would seriously re-consider your beliefs. The Catholic church is just f*ucked up and obviously you aren't following your religion closely.

Go get educated about your body and her body. GO GET CONDOMS. or QUIT HAVING SEX.
 

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yeah you could get a staff infenction on your ****



stafflococki or wutever its called. It lives in your anal tracked to help break down food and enzimes but if injest it can be extremely harmful and even cause death

a wound could form on your ****




Thats why you dont eat ****!
 

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If you want to detox from your Cathaholic addiction try these books:

An Encounter with a Prophet - by Clyde A. Lewis

The Spirituality of Imperfection: Storytelling and the Search for Meaning - by ERNEST KURTZ

The God We Never Knew: Beyond Dogmatic Religion to a More Authentic Contemporary Faith - by Marcus J. Borg

Just want to put them out there in case you ever want to reconsider your faith.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
Um, it is against one of the 10 Commandments. It's committing adultery.

And if i were you i would seriously re-consider your beliefs. The Catholic church is just f*ucked up and obviously you aren't following your religion closely.

Go get educated about your body and her body. GO GET CONDOMS. or QUIT HAVING SEX.
actually, adultery is nowadays considered as cheating on your spouse, not having premarital sex. the new testament doesn't mention premarital sex, which has been brought up later by the catholic Church. thanks to alpha and omega, but i don't think i'm going to reconsider my faith, i am a catholic and will ever be, even though i'm human and i can't help but commit some mistakes
 

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Originally posted by Jay-X
keep laughing, but nobody has still managed to explain why i shouldn't have anal sex without a condom if i know that she's safe

plus, you are turning around the meaning of my sentence. i said that, since they could break or slip off, i don't have sex when she's impregnable, but just when she's on her period, so i can even not wear them...
You can get an infection from anal. Listen, you are 17 years old. A girl can get pregnant while on her period or anytime during the month...especially when she is a teenager. Do you want to be a father and miss out on being young? Your religion opposes pre-marital sex, which you're already doing, so using a condom isn't going to do any religious "harm".
 

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Originally posted by Jay-X
actually, adultery is nowadays considered as cheating on your spouse, not having premarital sex. the new testament doesn't mention premarital sex, which has been brought up later by the catholic Church. thanks to alpha and omega, but i don't think i'm going to reconsider my faith, i am a catholic and will ever be, even though i'm human and i can't help but commit some mistakes
When you commit adultery, you are having sex with someone other than your spouse. Which you are doing. Your girlfriend isn't your spouse. Pre-marital sex is mentioned in the Bible as a sin. I dont know where, but it is. And if you're Catholic, you believe in the WHOLE Bible, not just the NT. Only the Jewish faith believes in the OT. So unless you're Jewish, its all or none.
 

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^^ wtf are you trying to say?? so he isn't a catholic cause he chooses to pork his gf in the pooper?
 

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I'm saying that he's a hypocrite if he says he's catholic but breaks one of the cardinal rules of being a catholic, and that he shouldn't call himself catholic if he doesn't practice it. One thing that Catholics are adament about is no pre-marital sex. and doing something that goes SO against your religion is being a hypocrite. Thats like being a Hindu and eathing a steak.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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