i know for sure that this is not to be done. even if you wear a condom, you should never ever put it inside her @sshole and then put it into her pùssy. i don't think this is what those guys were talkin about, but thanks anyway
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
she's late on her period
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
hahaha are you still that thick headed?!
Like I said it's three easy steps.
1. Go to ANY search engine
2. Type in "Sexual Education"
3. READ!
I got nearly 12 million hits on two different engines. If you're too lazy to do that then you really shouldn't be having sex anyway. My god do you want us to hold your hand as you do it? Grow up! Knowledge of sexual safety should be YOUR number 1 concern, and if you don't take it serously then why would you expect anything from us but laughter?
Like I said it's three easy steps.
1. Go to ANY search engine
2. Type in "Sexual Education"
3. READ!
I got nearly 12 million hits on two different engines. If you're too lazy to do that then you really shouldn't be having sex anyway. My god do you want us to hold your hand as you do it? Grow up! Knowledge of sexual safety should be YOUR number 1 concern, and if you don't take it serously then why would you expect anything from us but laughter?
man, i looked for that on google and every results i opened, told me that i shouldn't do anal sex without a condom, since it's easy as fùck to get STDs that way. i found no other reason, so please tell me yours
Nex
Senior Don Juan
Although *I* personally would like to have anal sex without a condom, just to try it out.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Uhhhh do you really need ANOTHER reason? STD's can straight up kill you! Why would you need another reason? Death is the ultimate reason to protect yourself. Get with it man!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
STDs can be contracted if your partner already has them. i know my partner, since i've been with her for the last year. she's STDs free, since i'm the one who took her virginity. i can be an idiot, in relation to sexual education, but i would never have done anal sex without a condom, if i weren't sure that she was STDs free... do you think you are on the right side yet?
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Even if your partner doesn't have and STD, there are thousands of tiny micro organisims living within the rectum that can enter your urinary track and cause major infections. In all likely hood they will not kill you but you will experience extreme pain while urinating as well as experience blood mixed in with your urine.
Doesn't sound like a risk I'd be willing to take, but then again I don't enjoy pain too much. To have a UTI cured you'll have to take a series of pills and have multiple trips to the doctors. I also don't like haveing my wallet hit, but again that's just me.
Do what you want to, but there are major conciquences to having sex without a condom. It's easy to use one and it just makes good sense to wrap it up during sex.
Doesn't sound like a risk I'd be willing to take, but then again I don't enjoy pain too much. To have a UTI cured you'll have to take a series of pills and have multiple trips to the doctors. I also don't like haveing my wallet hit, but again that's just me.
Do what you want to, but there are major conciquences to having sex without a condom. It's easy to use one and it just makes good sense to wrap it up during sex.
i don't give, here in italy we don't have to pay for medical cures.
just joking
it would have been better if you had told me all this stuff before, so we would have avoided tens of stupid replies. i did not know that you could get diseases this way, but i trust you, thanks for your help!LuvMyArmyMan
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I went to Catholic school. I am not a bigot. This couple is UNMARRIED. in Catholic Doctrine, having any form of sexual relations BEFORE YOU ARE MARRIED IS CONSIDERDED A SIN. End of discussion. If you knowingly have sexual relations and you keep doing it and don't repent, you shouldn't call yourself a Catholic because you are not doing what a Catholic does, therefore you are a hypocrite.
And I am aware of the non-hormonal and non-condom forms of "birth control". I know how to tell if i am ovulating or not. There is the mucus test, the temperature test and the calendar test. I know that MARRIED Catholics practice them.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
With pre-marital relations? If that's true, euro-Catholics are hypocrites.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
are you a retard jay or just trying to be one?
i think am, but why you sayin this?
anyway, luvmyarmy is right, catholic doctrine says that you should have sex just to procreate. recently, the Vatican permitted sex into marriage, even if it's not to procreate. what i'm doing with my girlfriend is against catholic doctrine and i know. anyway, it's not against the 10 commandments, but just against a Church's law, which is not considered to get you to hell
LuvMyArmyMan
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Um, it is against one of the 10 Commandments. It's committing adultery.
And if i were you i would seriously re-consider your beliefs. The Catholic church is just f*ucked up and obviously you aren't following your religion closely.
Go get educated about your body and her body. GO GET CONDOMS. or QUIT HAVING SEX.
And if i were you i would seriously re-consider your beliefs. The Catholic church is just f*ucked up and obviously you aren't following your religion closely.
Go get educated about your body and her body. GO GET CONDOMS. or QUIT HAVING SEX.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
yeah you could get a staff infenction on your ****
stafflococki or wutever its called. It lives in your anal tracked to help break down food and enzimes but if injest it can be extremely harmful and even cause death
a wound could form on your ****
Thats why you dont eat ****!
stafflococki or wutever its called. It lives in your anal tracked to help break down food and enzimes but if injest it can be extremely harmful and even cause death
a wound could form on your ****
Thats why you dont eat ****!
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If you want to detox from your Cathaholic addiction try these books:
An Encounter with a Prophet - by Clyde A. Lewis
The Spirituality of Imperfection: Storytelling and the Search for Meaning - by ERNEST KURTZ
The God We Never Knew: Beyond Dogmatic Religion to a More Authentic Contemporary Faith - by Marcus J. Borg
Just want to put them out there in case you ever want to reconsider your faith.
An Encounter with a Prophet - by Clyde A. Lewis
The Spirituality of Imperfection: Storytelling and the Search for Meaning - by ERNEST KURTZ
The God We Never Knew: Beyond Dogmatic Religion to a More Authentic Contemporary Faith - by Marcus J. Borg
Just want to put them out there in case you ever want to reconsider your faith.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
actually, adultery is nowadays considered as cheating on your spouse, not having premarital sex. the new testament doesn't mention premarital sex, which has been brought up later by the catholic Church. thanks to alpha and omega, but i don't think i'm going to reconsider my faith, i am a catholic and will ever be, even though i'm human and i can't help but commit some mistakes
You can get an infection from anal. Listen, you are 17 years old. A girl can get pregnant while on her period or anytime during the month...especially when she is a teenager. Do you want to be a father and miss out on being young? Your religion opposes pre-marital sex, which you're already doing, so using a condom isn't going to do any religious "harm".
LuvMyArmyMan
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When you commit adultery, you are having sex with someone other than your spouse. Which you are doing. Your girlfriend isn't your spouse. Pre-marital sex is mentioned in the Bible as a sin. I dont know where, but it is. And if you're Catholic, you believe in the WHOLE Bible, not just the NT. Only the Jewish faith believes in the OT. So unless you're Jewish, its all or none.
Centaurion
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^^ wtf are you trying to say?? so he isn't a catholic cause he chooses to pork his gf in the pooper?
LuvMyArmyMan
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I'm saying that he's a hypocrite if he says he's catholic but breaks one of the cardinal rules of being a catholic, and that he shouldn't call himself catholic if he doesn't practice it. One thing that Catholics are adament about is no pre-marital sex. and doing something that goes SO against your religion is being a hypocrite. Thats like being a Hindu and eathing a steak.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.