"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She's a Man Eater.....

LoneSilver

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I know what your going through STR8UP don't take my post about the puke bag personally. I guess it's my way of deferring attention away from your pain sorta like the friend who says the hell with women lets go fishing or go to the races to get your mind off that area but he knows in time the horny friend will regroup and rise again.

I have in my own personal life properly have come off as being a cold ass toward women but if I am it's toward a select type that really gets on my nerves like the maneater you post of and the reason I posted those lyrics. It was bringing back memories especially during the late 70's and 80's my partying days but it's only a small dose of all that went on back then and remember the many, many women I bedded to even things out.

Hell you have every right to post the things you do this is our man bar so to speak our club of men who meet on a regular bases and shoot the goose I guess sorta in a round about way what that cool guy senor fingers was saying but if I am wrong about anything I have said here I stand corrected and again mean no harm only happiness and joys.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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realsmoothie

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I saw Hall & Oates last summer, good stuff. And yeah, their stuff was pretty interesting, and often pretty dark for "pop" music.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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