"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She's a Man Eater.....

LoneSilver

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I know what your going through STR8UP don't take my post about the puke bag personally. I guess it's my way of deferring attention away from your pain sorta like the friend who says the hell with women lets go fishing or go to the races to get your mind off that area but he knows in time the horny friend will regroup and rise again.

I have in my own personal life properly have come off as being a cold ass toward women but if I am it's toward a select type that really gets on my nerves like the maneater you post of and the reason I posted those lyrics. It was bringing back memories especially during the late 70's and 80's my partying days but it's only a small dose of all that went on back then and remember the many, many women I bedded to even things out.

Hell you have every right to post the things you do this is our man bar so to speak our club of men who meet on a regular bases and shoot the goose I guess sorta in a round about way what that cool guy senor fingers was saying but if I am wrong about anything I have said here I stand corrected and again mean no harm only happiness and joys.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I saw Hall & Oates last summer, good stuff. And yeah, their stuff was pretty interesting, and often pretty dark for "pop" music.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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