Shedding light on whether women desire men who make fun of other men

[jhonny9546]

Hello Friends!
Johnny here!

I would like to shed light on the fact that women are attracted to a type of man who demonstrates that he makes fun of other men.

It can be done simply mentally, through sarcasm, manipulation, jokes, but also physically as in the examples below

Women tend not to like men who are rude or unkind to them and try to dominate women.

the only women who do are damaged women.

however, women REALLY REALLY like men who are unkind to other men.

when I was a kid, like 22, and really dumb, there was a chick there about my age. Not that hot but big tits. (Workplace)

A dude about 50, ugly, and I didn't get on.

one day he kind of ambushed me when this chick was present. I was too young to not be intimidated by this and the guy tore a strip off me, very aggressive and uncalled for. I was a bit lost and didn't know what to say. It was unexpected, I ended up just walking out.

the chick slept with that dude that night. That really took some processing that I kind of got used as a punching bag to get that guy laid, and women really seem to appreciate that.

on the other side, I went out with a good girl. A good girl, apparently. One night I was drunk and me and this weaker dude were trying to get a taxi. I pulled the guy out of the queue, threatened him and said “this is ours” and told him to F off, and he backed down, intimidated.

this good girl, man, she was sucking mu face off in the taxi and massively turned on.

I know, it's not about being a bad boy with women. It's about being dominant over other men. Period.
You really are onto something there. My woman loves the fact that I project a respectfull and polite demeanor that is tempered with a very definite “you really don't want to f with me” vibe. I've got that Clint Eastwood “Speak softly but carry a big stick” thing going on. Not that I purposely modeled myself after him, but there is a natural similarity.



I used to be a total people-pleaser pu$$y with that sing-songy nice guy voice. You know, that voice tonality that tries to reassure everyone that you're not a threat. I cringe just thinking about it, and am appalled if I catch myself slipping into it. Thankfully I recognize it right away and simply hit my internal reset switch.



My girl also loves the fact that I carry a firearm. Women love it when they consider you dangerous to everyone else but they feel safe with you. But being a loud mouth bully gets old for them. I found that the sweet spot is that quiet dignity and polite attitude while still somehow projecting potential danger.

I've experienced something similar firsthand. I was the victim, but there were a few instances in the past, when I was younger, where I was the aggressor, and I only realized it today.

In fact, I notice that when men behave badly towards other men, women react immediately.

It happened one day at my house when my BIL made fun of a man invited to the party. (I imagine it was a party with my sister for them.)
It happened when a friend of mine cleaned up a boy who had come to make fun of us while we were on the tennis court (that day he had fantastic sex with his girlfriend, who was watching us from the stands).

It's happened many other times too.

Now give some examples, and together let's try to understand what's going on here.

In fact, if a good man has this kind of superior attitude towards other men, it means he himself can't form friendships.
Friendship requires us to raise our game sometimes, and to support other men.
I don't know how to explain it, but you'd never have a friendship with a man like that, nor could he ever have a friendship.
A man like that is giving the example of being a good leader, father?

So how can a woman be attracted to this?

(This might just be confirmation bias)

 

[BaronOfHair]

@jhonny9546 "So how can a woman be attracted to this?"

Big difference between being playful and denigrating one's fellow men