EyeOnThePrize
Master Don Juan
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This "she's going to cheat anyway" mentality is a self fulfilling prophecy. It makes you feel better about neglecting the relationship, and if/when she does cheat as a result, you get to say you're right. But that's not a win at all, you're just jaded af.Are you married my brother? Just asking because it is an important question. Saying women cheat because the emotional connection is lost is tricky. Maybe you are correct but this emotional connection will be lost over time. So its basically inevitable. This is especially true if she is attractive. It is very difficult to maintain alpha frame over a 40 yr period. At some point even Superman becomes boring.
I think we will be shocked if we went through our girls phones. I am not saying they will all go out and bang a dude. I am saying is that most of them have some guy in the background ( if they are attractive).
Emotional connections die over time if you neglect them, just like they grow if you nurture them. To say they only die is misguided and wrong.
There are plenty of women that are both hot and loyal. Yes there are also tons of hot hoes that don't know how to manage their emotions and work on a relationship, you simply filter out these bimbos if you're looking for a family.
There's more than the two camps you defined, and you know it, but in your circles this is all you've bothered to look for. It's a dangerous oversimplification, and it doesn't sound like you want a family, so why be in a LTR anyway?
Maybe you're afraid of committing to a woman because you don't want to be emotionally hurt. A real man doesn't spend time worrying about her cheating. She does it she's gone, who gives a fuuck? Why identify with it? Why be validated by her? Learn from your mistakes and move on. Don't spout this nonsense just because you've chosen bimbos or neglected past relationships.