"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My other question guys? Now that we are on same page with her, how do i get it to bang without the boyfriend factor popping up like, today She was like i need to be back before boyfriend is back etc bla bla
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My other question guys? Now that we are on same page with her, how do i get it to bang without the boyfriend factor popping up like, today She was like i need to be back before boyfriend is back etc bla bla
 

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My other question guys? Now that we are on same page with her, how do i get it to bang without the boyfriend factor popping up like, today She was like i need to be back before boyfriend is back etc bla bla
Sounds like that's her and her boyfriend's problem!
 

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Thanks much guys, we live and learn one day at a time, better togther. Leave no man behind.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sounds like that's her and her boyfriend's problem!
Champ,! Invited her to my place for drinks yesterday, she was like boyfriend bla bla not good idea. She finally came , chill drinks and bang ... She coming over for bang this Friday again...

Thanks for your input
 

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also I forgot to mention that two weeks ago she sent me her nudes, while in shower and her pics top less etc. So was asking myself why would she do that yet still say she just wants to be friends? I don’t think friends do that ?
I'd only accept a nude next to a newspaper masthead with todays date on it.
So I knew it only existed because she was trying to stimulate me and only me.

Girls keep (flattering) nudes on their camera roll to dish out as motivational
scooby snacks. You aren't the only guy beating off over those pics.
 

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So true, She started working as a nurse two months ago, they have only been together for 8 months. She told me She is atracted to me and She has feelings for me but She dont want to leave her guy yet even though they dont talk, no sex etc so i think She just buying her time before She goes off
I have some ocean front property in Arizona. You interested?
 

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Champ,! Invited her to my place for drinks yesterday, she was like boyfriend bla bla not good idea. She finally came , chill drinks and bang ... She coming over for bang this Friday again...

Thanks for your input
Well done, Man - She is yours now!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Champ,! Invited her to my place for drinks yesterday, she was like boyfriend bla bla not good idea. She finally came , chill drinks and bang ... She coming over for bang this Friday again...

Thanks for your input
Now go back and read all the posts on this thread telling you she's just stringing you along, has no intention of sex with you, etc etc.

Goes to show how bad most of the "advice" here is.
 

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Champ,! Invited her to my place for drinks yesterday, she was like boyfriend bla bla not good idea. She finally came , chill drinks and bang ... She coming over for bang this Friday again...

Thanks for your input
Of course she did ;)
 

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Now go back and read all the posts on this thread telling you she's just stringing you along, has no intention of sex with you, etc etc.

Goes to show how bad most of the "advice" here is.
The "stringing along" and greater than 3rd date rule is still "good" advice in this realm,, because it keeps a man from getting hung up on a lady who just doesn't value or desire him "enough". Put those on the back burner or cut them out while you interact with more interested persons.
 

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Now go back and read all the posts on this thread telling you she's just stringing you along, has no intention of sex with you, etc etc.

Goes to show how bad most of the "advice" here is.
True , i think some advice are not genuine and do not Apply to all situation, its sometimes good to perssit when that still Voice tells you there might be hope
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Congrats to her. She just gained herself another plate...
 
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