She wants to be exclusive?

[djceta21]

So I've been talking to a girl recently, we've made out and everything. She's asked me a few times about "What we are" and whether we're just friends, but every time I sort of just brushed the question off like I don't want to answer it. She's even told my friends that she wants me to ask her out but she doesn't want to keep bringing up the topic.

Is this the hint she's dropping that she wants to be exclusive? I know guys are never supposed to ask, but in this case has she already indirectly asked?

 

[Matthew Lyon]

So I've been talking to a girl recently, we've made out and everything. She's asked me a few times about "What we are" and whether we're just friends, but every time I sort of just brushed the question off like I don't want to answer it. She's even told my friends that she wants me to ask her out but she doesn't want to keep bringing up the topic.

Is this the hint she's dropping that she wants to be exclusive? I know guys are never supposed to ask, but in this case has she already indirectly asked?

Just tell her, "Not everything needs a label. All I know is that I'm enjoying the time we share together and I have strong feelings for you. Anything else beyond that I do not know. I just know how I feel."

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

She is indirectly asking you to ask her out. If you want to be exclusive with her just go ahead and make it official.

 

[bigneil]

Just tell her, "Not everything needs a label. All I know is that I'm enjoying the time we share together and I have strong feelings for you. Anything else beyond that I do not know. I just know how I feel."

The first part is good, but I would stop with "I'm enjoying the time we share together". A man should avoid using the 'F' word (feelings).

 

[Matthew Lyon]

The first part is good, but I would stop with "I'm enjoying the time we share together". A man should avoid using the 'F' word (feelings).

I can see where you're going with this. If you don't have much experience with women, then avoid using the feelings word. But if you're confident in yourself and don't say it in a needy or wussy way, nothing wrong with saying feelings. I've even told girls, "I'm enjoying the friend zone with you. I've had thoughts about taking things further but prefer to get to know you better." And that night or 2 days later we're sleeping together. And I say it with confidence and sincerity. So it doesn't matter so much what you say but how you say it. You can even buy her a drink if you just met her, pay for all dinners, and give her compliments, but it can't come from a place of neediness. That's just my experience. I'm very nice and elaborate with women. I even tell them how I used to be very insecure with women while out on dates with them, lol. They love it!