I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
wow bro come on don't date this women. She is just setting you up to be financial support that her OWN actual baby daddy doesnt even want to be.Vlad the Impaler said:Do not accept a date with her kids. What the hell is wrong with you?
Conquer said:wow bro come on don't date this women. She is just setting you up to be financial support that her OWN actual baby daddy doesnt even want to be.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
21, with kids?wordism said:I never been on a date with a woman's kids tagging along so really don't know how to go about it. The kids are pretty young not sure how young but she is only 21.. so they have to be mad young haha.. Should I just make the best out of it?
+1 ....................... You're a sheep being led to its slaughter. If you can't figure out "why" then maybe it's your destiny.Rhoto said:21, with kids?
Are you retarded? Pick another girl, its not like we have a shortage.
Her kids tagging along = it's NOT a date.wordism said:I never been on a date with a woman's kids tagging along so really don't know how to go about it.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
:crackup:cyp6 said:wow, reading some of your replays... no offense but most of you sound like theory fan boys.... There are no rules, you have to assess your situation and then make a decision. thats it. its either you like her or you dont.. Be a man
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
LOL---then suck HER d1ckscrouds said:Unlike everyone else in the thread, I think this is a great idea.
Don't forget, flowers for her, and a teddy bear for the little one. We want to make a good impression on her, right? Well show her that you are a good provider for her and her kid.
/sarcasm