You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
wow bro come on don't date this women. She is just setting you up to be financial support that her OWN actual baby daddy doesnt even want to be.Vlad the Impaler said:Do not accept a date with her kids. What the hell is wrong with you?
Conquer said:wow bro come on don't date this women. She is just setting you up to be financial support that her OWN actual baby daddy doesnt even want to be.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
21, with kids?wordism said:I never been on a date with a woman's kids tagging along so really don't know how to go about it. The kids are pretty young not sure how young but she is only 21.. so they have to be mad young haha.. Should I just make the best out of it?
+1 ....................... You're a sheep being led to its slaughter. If you can't figure out "why" then maybe it's your destiny.Rhoto said:21, with kids?
Are you retarded? Pick another girl, its not like we have a shortage.
Her kids tagging along = it's NOT a date.wordism said:I never been on a date with a woman's kids tagging along so really don't know how to go about it.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
:crackup:cyp6 said:wow, reading some of your replays... no offense but most of you sound like theory fan boys.... There are no rules, you have to assess your situation and then make a decision. thats it. its either you like her or you dont.. Be a man
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LOL---then suck HER d1ckscrouds said:Unlike everyone else in the thread, I think this is a great idea.
Don't forget, flowers for her, and a teddy bear for the little one. We want to make a good impression on her, right? Well show her that you are a good provider for her and her kid.
/sarcasm