You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
wow bro come on don't date this women. She is just setting you up to be financial support that her OWN actual baby daddy doesnt even want to be.Vlad the Impaler said:Do not accept a date with her kids. What the hell is wrong with you?
Conquer said:wow bro come on don't date this women. She is just setting you up to be financial support that her OWN actual baby daddy doesnt even want to be.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
21, with kids?wordism said:I never been on a date with a woman's kids tagging along so really don't know how to go about it. The kids are pretty young not sure how young but she is only 21.. so they have to be mad young haha.. Should I just make the best out of it?
+1 ....................... You're a sheep being led to its slaughter. If you can't figure out "why" then maybe it's your destiny.Rhoto said:21, with kids?
Are you retarded? Pick another girl, its not like we have a shortage.
Her kids tagging along = it's NOT a date.wordism said:I never been on a date with a woman's kids tagging along so really don't know how to go about it.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
:crackup:cyp6 said:wow, reading some of your replays... no offense but most of you sound like theory fan boys.... There are no rules, you have to assess your situation and then make a decision. thats it. its either you like her or you dont.. Be a man
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LOL---then suck HER d1ckscrouds said:Unlike everyone else in the thread, I think this is a great idea.
Don't forget, flowers for her, and a teddy bear for the little one. We want to make a good impression on her, right? Well show her that you are a good provider for her and her kid.
/sarcasm