"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She wants a second public date before coming to my place.

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Glassguy said:
Agreed. The "can we talk" is about 2 things:

1. Will he respond.....meaning is he still on the hook
2. To see if he will not only respond, but jump at the chance.

Its a gauge of his interest. Most certainly a test. Had she had a sincere apology, he would have gotten it already.

Just another mediocre yet entitled little bytch that deserves no more than crickets.......
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Great point here dude. Well I haven't responded yet and don't plan on it!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Pan87 said:
This. Cooking for a girl that you haven't banged yet is way too much investment. It just makes you look needy and low value in her eyes. Same rules apply for taking a girl to a restaurant.

Eating with a girl is a girlfriend privilege. She gets a coffee or a drink max pre-bang.
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No...you don't cook for her, you cook with her. Major difference.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Went on a date yesterday to a local spot with a new girl. Date went really well - we each got one drink and she even offered to split the bill
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What is this nonsense. Dude you make her buy you food and groceries. Once she's invested in you, then you've got leverage. Sorry, but a home cooked meal DOES NOT compare to a Big Mac, fries and a chocolate shake. You want to win my heart? Make me a Happy Meal betch!
 
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