Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
the person is 23 who wrote me and the dude is in his 40's who is the agentheadFirst said:Maybe it's revenge on her ex bf.. and he is the ex..
Mike32ct said:If you are having cyber sex (dirty instant message chat) with a "chick" and "she" sounds UNUSUALLY raunchy and graphic for a girl, it's a dude whacking off on the other end.
I've had that happen lol.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
1) Online you don't know if its a girl unless you see her face.Pardner said:Are you related to "The Donald"? He would be disappointed with the ignorance. You're making wrong assumptions here or trying to spin it your way for things you don't know.
1) If a girl is interested in you or thinks you're attractive she will give you her number to talk or text to you first to take it to the next level. she wont have to wait on emails and can talk when she wants. that is how it is usually done.
2) It was 4 emails. I wasn't interested in setting up a hang out in the emails. wanted to talk first to see if she was worth hanging out or not.
3) You make your own wrong assumption. I was on google looking up info for my report and just for the hell of it while I was on I googled the numbers.
4) It was one number that was bad. This person contacted me first. I just responded to the emails. This person gave me their number. I never asked for it. How you think that is desperate is beyond me. There wasn't anything to laugh at because they wasted their time with it.
5) Why go to the trouble of contacting someone and write to them and give a fake number. a waste of time
Tons of guys here have put up female profiles on dating sites. It would almost be a miracle NOT to run into one.sylvester the cat said:i've done it a couple of times. pretended to be a woman on pof. but only to see what kind of messages men send.
although i have responded to some guys. i couldn't resist.
Err... sorry about that.Mike32ct said:If you are having cyber sex (dirty instant message chat) with a "chick" and "she" sounds UNUSUALLY raunchy and graphic for a girl, it's a dude whacking off on the other end.
I've had that happen lol.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Trump said:1) Online you don't know if its a girl unless you see her face.
2) That's up to you
3) It wasn't just for the hell of it, you were curious.
4) and 5) the person you talked to could have been the realtor to see if you phone.
Dude some people are bored and crazy online. What you think is a waste of time is fun and relaxing for them. They email you the number, they forget about you the next day.