"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She turned out to be a he

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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headFirst said:
Maybe it's revenge on her ex bf.. and he is the ex..
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the person is 23 who wrote me and the dude is in his 40's who is the agent
still it was a waste of time
 
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Mike32ct said:
If you are having cyber sex (dirty instant message chat) with a "chick" and "she" sounds UNUSUALLY raunchy and graphic for a girl, it's a dude whacking off on the other end.

I've had that happen lol.
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haha that sucks but no it was a regular convo that i replied to and then gave me a number and asked to text but was a fake
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Are you related to "The Donald"? He would be disappointed with the ignorance. You're making wrong assumptions here or trying to spin it your way for things you don't know.

1) If a girl is interested in you or thinks you're attractive she will give you her number to talk or text to you first to take it to the next level. she wont have to wait on emails and can talk when she wants. that is how it is usually done.

2) It was 4 emails. I wasn't interested in setting up a hang out in the emails. wanted to talk first to see if she was worth hanging out or not.

3) You make your own wrong assumption. I was on google looking up info for my report and just for the hell of it while I was on I googled the numbers.

4) It was one number that was bad. This person contacted me first. I just responded to the emails. This person gave me their number. I never asked for it. How you think that is desperate is beyond me. There wasn't anything to laugh at because they wasted their time with it.

5) Why go to the trouble of contacting someone and write to them and give a fake number. a waste of time
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1) Online you don't know if its a girl unless you see her face.

2) That's up to you

3) It wasn't just for the hell of it, you were curious.

4) and 5) the person you talked to could have been the realtor to see if you phone.

Dude some people are bored and crazy online. What you think is a waste of time is fun and relaxing for them. They email you the number, they forget about you the next day.
 
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sylvester the cat said:
i've done it a couple of times. pretended to be a woman on pof. but only to see what kind of messages men send.

although i have responded to some guys. i couldn't resist.
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Tons of guys here have put up female profiles on dating sites. It would almost be a miracle NOT to run into one.

Most of the guys are trying to see how many more messages women get compared to men. I don't know why they do this, it's firmly established that the difference is astronomical. Not surprising, considering man is the pursuer by nature. I guess they just have to see for themselves.

I'm sure there are at least just as many freaks out there that like to pose as a woman to get their jollies off.
 
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Mike32ct said:
If you are having cyber sex (dirty instant message chat) with a "chick" and "she" sounds UNUSUALLY raunchy and graphic for a girl, it's a dude whacking off on the other end.

I've had that happen lol.
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Err... sorry about that.

I was really randy that night.

:D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Trump said:
1) Online you don't know if its a girl unless you see her face.

2) That's up to you

3) It wasn't just for the hell of it, you were curious.

4) and 5) the person you talked to could have been the realtor to see if you phone.

Dude some people are bored and crazy online. What you think is a waste of time is fun and relaxing for them. They email you the number, they forget about you the next day.
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!. That is true

2. Yes it is

3. Wrong again, Nothing to be curious about

fun and relaxing? maybe that's something you do but I can find better things to do for or relax to.

Wrong again, others who emailed me numbers have emailed me after they gave it to me.
 
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