Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
bullshit.In Motion said:Its because of people like these that has gotten their America their idiot status.
And because of this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k0RH0cYs4lw
He was trying so hard not to laugh...the man has FOCUS, that's for sure!DJDamage said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Michele said:bullshit.
it's people going out and posting propaganda like that.
for some reason, people believe those small number of idiots (that appeared more than once in one video) represent 100% of americans.
i was on this teen forum trolling a bit and there was this guy from russia or the surrounding countries like that... who turned every topic into a american bash. he posted every single youtube video that he could find that had 4 people that he thought represented 100% of americans... to teenagers.
it's just propaganda.
i also saw two versions of a dog being shot by US soldiers in iraq. they both were the same video, except:
the first one had a dog being shot three times until it was killed... it made a yelping sound.
the second one had troops stopping to see what was wrong with a dog, it appeared to be wild/abandoned, and injured to the point it will die slowly. a soldier said they had to do something about it, so a different soldier shot it once and it didnt die... shot it again and it didn't die... and shot it till it was killed.
the first video was edited to make americans look bad.
there are stupid people EVERYWHERE. just like there are intelligent people everywhere. only the stupid people would believe such propaganda.
I said: its because of people LIKE this that America has gained their status from. I didnt say it was true, so no need to get you panties in a bunch.Michele said:bullshit.
it's people going out and posting propaganda like that.
for some reason, people believe those small number of idiots (that appeared more than once in one video) represent 100% of americans.
i was on this teen forum trolling a bit and there was this guy from russia or the surrounding countries like that... who turned every topic into a american bash. he posted every single youtube video that he could find that had 4 people that he thought represented 100% of americans... to teenagers.
it's just propaganda.
i also saw two versions of a dog being shot by US soldiers in iraq. they both were the same video, except:
the first one had a dog being shot three times until it was killed... it made a yelping sound.
the second one had troops stopping to see what was wrong with a dog, it appeared to be wild/abandoned, and injured to the point it will die slowly. a soldier said they had to do something about it, so a different soldier shot it once and it didnt die... shot it again and it didn't die... and shot it till it was killed.
the first video was edited to make americans look bad.
there are stupid people EVERYWHERE. just like there are intelligent people everywhere. only the stupid people would believe such propaganda.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I think a camel flew in and took it for its nest.MacAvoy said:Anyone see where my Igloo went?