Alright so here is the story. I've been dating this girl for awhile now and just last night she gave me a blow job. Now I thought the blow job was amazing, but I find out that she thinks she didn't do a good job and that I didn't like it. She says this because I didn't make a whole lot of noise while she was doing it. I wanna let her know that she did a good job how should I go about doing this. Should I make more noise next time?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She thinks she didn't do a good job?
- Thread starter danro
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
No. You don't have to make noise but at least show her that you are enjoying it. You are probably not aware of your facial movement in which case(to her at least) you look like you are either in pain or in discomfort.danro said:
I would just smile and play with her hair a bit while she gives you a bj and when you are about to cvm just yank and pull her hair just a bit. That should tell her plenty.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
how old is this woman?
come on, we know when things went well, we know when we were good at what we did and we know when the night went bad.
shes just telling you this so that you can tell her how great she was and show her appreciation, thats as simple as that.
come on, we know when things went well, we know when we were good at what we did and we know when the night went bad.
shes just telling you this so that you can tell her how great she was and show her appreciation, thats as simple as that.
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At least shes gonna try more 
She didn't do a good job. Which is why you are probably going to give her more time to practise, until she gets it right.
She should be told to start with some other body part before she gets permission to work on your sausage.
She should be told to start with some other body part before she gets permission to work on your sausage.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.