Alright so here is the story. I've been dating this girl for awhile now and just last night she gave me a blow job. Now I thought the blow job was amazing, but I find out that she thinks she didn't do a good job and that I didn't like it. She says this because I didn't make a whole lot of noise while she was doing it. I wanna let her know that she did a good job how should I go about doing this. Should I make more noise next time?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She thinks she didn't do a good job?
- Thread starter danro
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
No. You don't have to make noise but at least show her that you are enjoying it. You are probably not aware of your facial movement in which case(to her at least) you look like you are either in pain or in discomfort.danro said:
I would just smile and play with her hair a bit while she gives you a bj and when you are about to cvm just yank and pull her hair just a bit. That should tell her plenty.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
how old is this woman?
come on, we know when things went well, we know when we were good at what we did and we know when the night went bad.
shes just telling you this so that you can tell her how great she was and show her appreciation, thats as simple as that.
come on, we know when things went well, we know when we were good at what we did and we know when the night went bad.
shes just telling you this so that you can tell her how great she was and show her appreciation, thats as simple as that.
MightyMate
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 9, 2005
- Messages
- 1,400
- Reaction score
- 2
At least shes gonna try more 
She didn't do a good job. Which is why you are probably going to give her more time to practise, until she gets it right.
She should be told to start with some other body part before she gets permission to work on your sausage.
She should be told to start with some other body part before she gets permission to work on your sausage.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.