Alright so here is the story. I've been dating this girl for awhile now and just last night she gave me a blow job. Now I thought the blow job was amazing, but I find out that she thinks she didn't do a good job and that I didn't like it. She says this because I didn't make a whole lot of noise while she was doing it. I wanna let her know that she did a good job how should I go about doing this. Should I make more noise next time?
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She thinks she didn't do a good job?
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No. You don't have to make noise but at least show her that you are enjoying it. You are probably not aware of your facial movement in which case(to her at least) you look like you are either in pain or in discomfort.danro said:
I would just smile and play with her hair a bit while she gives you a bj and when you are about to cvm just yank and pull her hair just a bit. That should tell her plenty.
penkitten
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how old is this woman?
come on, we know when things went well, we know when we were good at what we did and we know when the night went bad.
shes just telling you this so that you can tell her how great she was and show her appreciation, thats as simple as that.
come on, we know when things went well, we know when we were good at what we did and we know when the night went bad.
shes just telling you this so that you can tell her how great she was and show her appreciation, thats as simple as that.
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At least shes gonna try more 
She didn't do a good job. Which is why you are probably going to give her more time to practise, until she gets it right.
She should be told to start with some other body part before she gets permission to work on your sausage.
She should be told to start with some other body part before she gets permission to work on your sausage.
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She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.