Alright so here is the story. I've been dating this girl for awhile now and just last night she gave me a blow job. Now I thought the blow job was amazing, but I find out that she thinks she didn't do a good job and that I didn't like it. She says this because I didn't make a whole lot of noise while she was doing it. I wanna let her know that she did a good job how should I go about doing this. Should I make more noise next time?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She thinks she didn't do a good job?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
No. You don't have to make noise but at least show her that you are enjoying it. You are probably not aware of your facial movement in which case(to her at least) you look like you are either in pain or in discomfort.danro said:
I would just smile and play with her hair a bit while she gives you a bj and when you are about to cvm just yank and pull her hair just a bit. That should tell her plenty.
penkitten
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how old is this woman?
come on, we know when things went well, we know when we were good at what we did and we know when the night went bad.
shes just telling you this so that you can tell her how great she was and show her appreciation, thats as simple as that.
come on, we know when things went well, we know when we were good at what we did and we know when the night went bad.
shes just telling you this so that you can tell her how great she was and show her appreciation, thats as simple as that.
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At least shes gonna try more 
She didn't do a good job. Which is why you are probably going to give her more time to practise, until she gets it right.
She should be told to start with some other body part before she gets permission to work on your sausage.
She should be told to start with some other body part before she gets permission to work on your sausage.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.