"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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she tells me she dont know what she'll do without me..is it a trap??

baurman

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so yea my girl tells me this all the time and says she loves me, "you're the best and i dont know what i would do without you" would she say this to see what I say or how can i tell if she really means it? I think it could be a trap so I could open up to her and tell her "i love you" back. but whenever she tells me she loves me I just say "I know.."
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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this is what happens when you see EVERY FVCKIN THING through a paranoia / sht test filter
 

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my ex said the same exact words to me. saying if we ever broke up or she would probably not find somebody and would not want to find someone for a few years and that she would love me forever. 3 days after we broke up she started dating someone else and they were in a relationship 5 days later. she then slept with him and tried to come back to me......

she sure couldn't live without me.....

my suggestion is get out. If its hard just start spending less time with her. its best if u keep ur interest level lower when u do this. also start talking to other females if u can to open up more doors.

If you know she's insecure imagine what she would do to make that feeling go away, and imagine if your not there to do it for her...... you don't want to be that person.
 

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It may be a guilt trip to hold you in,but she's not likely to be telling the truth.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women like to use words like "love", "forever", and "commitment" easily and liberally.

Just think, 99% of "Why won't he commit?" articles are written by women, for women, in women's magazines. Marriages in general are demanded by the same percentages by women.

Then why the heck are 70% of divorces filed by women?
(this is Center for Disease Control data, so it is solid).

This should tell you that when your gf says things like "I can't live without you", she is merely talking in prose. She is whispering sweet little nothings. It sounds good at the moment and for the time being, but there is little substance. Take it for what it is worth.
 
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