so yea my girl tells me this all the time and says she loves me, "you're the best and i dont know what i would do without you" would she say this to see what I say or how can i tell if she really means it? I think it could be a trap so I could open up to her and tell her "i love you" back. but whenever she tells me she loves me I just say "I know.."
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
she tells me she dont know what she'll do without me..is it a trap??
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Everything is a trap. Everything is sh1t test. Women are our worst enemies.
Don't take **** from them. Remember , never trust a word from them. Even if they ask you "whats the time" , they are testing you and putting you into their frame.
Don't take **** from them. Remember , never trust a word from them. Even if they ask you "whats the time" , they are testing you and putting you into their frame.
ready123
Master Don Juan
this is what happens when you see EVERY FVCKIN THING through a paranoia / sht test filter
my ex said the same exact words to me. saying if we ever broke up or she would probably not find somebody and would not want to find someone for a few years and that she would love me forever. 3 days after we broke up she started dating someone else and they were in a relationship 5 days later. she then slept with him and tried to come back to me......
she sure couldn't live without me.....
my suggestion is get out. If its hard just start spending less time with her. its best if u keep ur interest level lower when u do this. also start talking to other females if u can to open up more doors.
If you know she's insecure imagine what she would do to make that feeling go away, and imagine if your not there to do it for her...... you don't want to be that person.
she sure couldn't live without me.....
my suggestion is get out. If its hard just start spending less time with her. its best if u keep ur interest level lower when u do this. also start talking to other females if u can to open up more doors.
If you know she's insecure imagine what she would do to make that feeling go away, and imagine if your not there to do it for her...... you don't want to be that person.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
It may be a guilt trip to hold you in,but she's not likely to be telling the truth.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
puma183
Don Juan
Women like to use words like "love", "forever", and "commitment" easily and liberally.
Just think, 99% of "Why won't he commit?" articles are written by women, for women, in women's magazines. Marriages in general are demanded by the same percentages by women.
Then why the heck are 70% of divorces filed by women?
(this is Center for Disease Control data, so it is solid).
This should tell you that when your gf says things like "I can't live without you", she is merely talking in prose. She is whispering sweet little nothings. It sounds good at the moment and for the time being, but there is little substance. Take it for what it is worth.
Just think, 99% of "Why won't he commit?" articles are written by women, for women, in women's magazines. Marriages in general are demanded by the same percentages by women.
Then why the heck are 70% of divorces filed by women?
(this is Center for Disease Control data, so it is solid).
This should tell you that when your gf says things like "I can't live without you", she is merely talking in prose. She is whispering sweet little nothings. It sounds good at the moment and for the time being, but there is little substance. Take it for what it is worth.
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Maybe she Just likes you a lot..