so yea my girl tells me this all the time and says she loves me, "you're the best and i dont know what i would do without you" would she say this to see what I say or how can i tell if she really means it? I think it could be a trap so I could open up to her and tell her "i love you" back. but whenever she tells me she loves me I just say "I know.."
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
she tells me she dont know what she'll do without me..is it a trap??
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
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Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Everything is a trap. Everything is sh1t test. Women are our worst enemies.
Don't take **** from them. Remember , never trust a word from them. Even if they ask you "whats the time" , they are testing you and putting you into their frame.
Don't take **** from them. Remember , never trust a word from them. Even if they ask you "whats the time" , they are testing you and putting you into their frame.
ready123
Master Don Juan
this is what happens when you see EVERY FVCKIN THING through a paranoia / sht test filter
my ex said the same exact words to me. saying if we ever broke up or she would probably not find somebody and would not want to find someone for a few years and that she would love me forever. 3 days after we broke up she started dating someone else and they were in a relationship 5 days later. she then slept with him and tried to come back to me......
she sure couldn't live without me.....
my suggestion is get out. If its hard just start spending less time with her. its best if u keep ur interest level lower when u do this. also start talking to other females if u can to open up more doors.
If you know she's insecure imagine what she would do to make that feeling go away, and imagine if your not there to do it for her...... you don't want to be that person.
she sure couldn't live without me.....
my suggestion is get out. If its hard just start spending less time with her. its best if u keep ur interest level lower when u do this. also start talking to other females if u can to open up more doors.
If you know she's insecure imagine what she would do to make that feeling go away, and imagine if your not there to do it for her...... you don't want to be that person.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
It may be a guilt trip to hold you in,but she's not likely to be telling the truth.
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puma183
Don Juan
Women like to use words like "love", "forever", and "commitment" easily and liberally.
Just think, 99% of "Why won't he commit?" articles are written by women, for women, in women's magazines. Marriages in general are demanded by the same percentages by women.
Then why the heck are 70% of divorces filed by women?
(this is Center for Disease Control data, so it is solid).
This should tell you that when your gf says things like "I can't live without you", she is merely talking in prose. She is whispering sweet little nothings. It sounds good at the moment and for the time being, but there is little substance. Take it for what it is worth.
Just think, 99% of "Why won't he commit?" articles are written by women, for women, in women's magazines. Marriages in general are demanded by the same percentages by women.
Then why the heck are 70% of divorces filed by women?
(this is Center for Disease Control data, so it is solid).
This should tell you that when your gf says things like "I can't live without you", she is merely talking in prose. She is whispering sweet little nothings. It sounds good at the moment and for the time being, but there is little substance. Take it for what it is worth.
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Maybe she Just likes you a lot..