so yea my girl tells me this all the time and says she loves me, "you're the best and i dont know what i would do without you" would she say this to see what I say or how can i tell if she really means it? I think it could be a trap so I could open up to her and tell her "i love you" back. but whenever she tells me she loves me I just say "I know.."
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
she tells me she dont know what she'll do without me..is it a trap??
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Everything is a trap. Everything is sh1t test. Women are our worst enemies.
Don't take **** from them. Remember , never trust a word from them. Even if they ask you "whats the time" , they are testing you and putting you into their frame.
Don't take **** from them. Remember , never trust a word from them. Even if they ask you "whats the time" , they are testing you and putting you into their frame.
ready123
Master Don Juan
this is what happens when you see EVERY FVCKIN THING through a paranoia / sht test filter
my ex said the same exact words to me. saying if we ever broke up or she would probably not find somebody and would not want to find someone for a few years and that she would love me forever. 3 days after we broke up she started dating someone else and they were in a relationship 5 days later. she then slept with him and tried to come back to me......
she sure couldn't live without me.....
my suggestion is get out. If its hard just start spending less time with her. its best if u keep ur interest level lower when u do this. also start talking to other females if u can to open up more doors.
If you know she's insecure imagine what she would do to make that feeling go away, and imagine if your not there to do it for her...... you don't want to be that person.
she sure couldn't live without me.....
my suggestion is get out. If its hard just start spending less time with her. its best if u keep ur interest level lower when u do this. also start talking to other females if u can to open up more doors.
If you know she's insecure imagine what she would do to make that feeling go away, and imagine if your not there to do it for her...... you don't want to be that person.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
It may be a guilt trip to hold you in,but she's not likely to be telling the truth.
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
puma183
Don Juan
Women like to use words like "love", "forever", and "commitment" easily and liberally.
Just think, 99% of "Why won't he commit?" articles are written by women, for women, in women's magazines. Marriages in general are demanded by the same percentages by women.
Then why the heck are 70% of divorces filed by women?
(this is Center for Disease Control data, so it is solid).
This should tell you that when your gf says things like "I can't live without you", she is merely talking in prose. She is whispering sweet little nothings. It sounds good at the moment and for the time being, but there is little substance. Take it for what it is worth.
Just think, 99% of "Why won't he commit?" articles are written by women, for women, in women's magazines. Marriages in general are demanded by the same percentages by women.
Then why the heck are 70% of divorces filed by women?
(this is Center for Disease Control data, so it is solid).
This should tell you that when your gf says things like "I can't live without you", she is merely talking in prose. She is whispering sweet little nothings. It sounds good at the moment and for the time being, but there is little substance. Take it for what it is worth.
chinwaggler
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Maybe she Just likes you a lot..