"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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she tells her mom EVERYTHING

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my girlfriend tells her mom everything.

she tells her when we have sex
she tells her when i do something stupid
she tells her when i TAKE A SHOWER
she tells her every little detail of MY life

and the worst part is, she never asks me if i think its ok for her to tell her these things. even if they are EXTREMELY embarassing to me, she tells her.

she also tells all her friends everything

i told her that i think a couple should have some secrets between them. they should have some things that are just their own. but she didnt listen

what do i do? i like her and all, but it feels like im dating her mom, also. i dont really wanna dump her, but she just doesnt listen to me. i tell her to ask me before she tells **** to her mom about me, but she doesnt think she has to. help!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Let her know how you truly feel. Example:

You: "Hey, I don't really appreciate you telling the WHOLE WORLD about our secrets, especially MY secrets. I mean, I feel like I'm dating your mom FFS! I don't think I will be able to trust you if you keep it up, I mean, if you would share MY secrets with the world, what stops you from cheating on me?!?!?"

Try that out if no one else gives advice. Good luck mate
 

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Rocko said:
Let her know how you truly feel. Example:

You: "Hey, I don't really appreciate you telling the WHOLE WORLD about our secrets, especially MY secrets. I mean, I feel like I'm dating your mom FFS! I don't think I will be able to trust you if you keep it up, I mean, if you would share MY secrets with the world, what stops you from cheating on me?!?!?"

Try that out if no one else gives advice. Good luck mate

I second this.if she has trouble keeping even a few things,like when you shower,act stupid,or have sex,what is keeping her from keeping the sex with just you.Just sit her down one day,and tell her how you feel about it.If she starts freaking out about it,i would have to say NEXT!
 

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k. thanks for the info guys. actually, thats exaclty what i said (except for the cheating part) and she thinks its justified and normal. i talked to her best friend and even she is siding with me! i really dont want to next her, but if you guys really think so...
 

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people again said:
k. thanks for the info guys. actually, thats exaclty what i said (except for the cheating part) and she thinks its justified and normal. i talked to her best friend and even she is siding with me! i really dont want to next her, but if you guys really think so...
Its of course hard to ditch someone you like a lot. But if she wont stop saying what you do, not worth it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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best thread since the last couple "hey this 10 year old chick makes me hot what do i do" threads.
 

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I was talking to a girl like this. It was twlight-zone-esque. She told her Mom everything. It was freaky. Young (HS) girls like to do this. SO LAME.
 

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I had a girl who did this to her mom....when I was selling pills. Her dad was a cop... all it takes is one argument, and her ass could have had me in prison for years... needless to say, she got dropped.
 

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yea, her mom AND dad are cops :p it doesnt matter, 'cause i just broke it up today.
 

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people again said:
yea, her mom AND dad are cops :p it doesnt matter, 'cause i just broke it up today.

damn , i would of had one of my friends say to her , hey people again said you love to take it in the ass and you scream like a demon :crackup: bonus points would be to say this in front of other people

she wouldnt take too kindly to this , and you would say , hey this might teach you a lesson not to tell the world about our business
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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this girl i was hanging out with told her mom i was getting into buddhism and i didnt like that so much. chicks talk alot and they need fuel to burn.
 

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i totally agree. it felt like i had no secrets, like there was not "me". even tho the sex was excelent, im glad im out :p
 

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crazy. id be like "hey, if this doesnt stop, were gonna hav to split up cus i dont want my business out there for everyone to see" then act on wutever she said next
 

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talk about beating a dead thread... um dead?

he already said he broke it off with the chick... so lets all tell our stories that have nothing to do with the thread.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Who would have thought that a thread could expand and that a discussion could have place on a discussion forum.
 

dannowillbookem

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seriously likretsam what the fucck is going on here...and it has to do with girls. gay beans there.
 

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Next time she does it just get in her face and be like "Ay yo f*ck yo mama this ain't yo mama business shawtie, it's just me and you. If you ain't wit it like dat then bust a move then."

:)
 
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