"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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she tells her mom EVERYTHING

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my girlfriend tells her mom everything.

she tells her when we have sex
she tells her when i do something stupid
she tells her when i TAKE A SHOWER
she tells her every little detail of MY life

and the worst part is, she never asks me if i think its ok for her to tell her these things. even if they are EXTREMELY embarassing to me, she tells her.

she also tells all her friends everything

i told her that i think a couple should have some secrets between them. they should have some things that are just their own. but she didnt listen

what do i do? i like her and all, but it feels like im dating her mom, also. i dont really wanna dump her, but she just doesnt listen to me. i tell her to ask me before she tells **** to her mom about me, but she doesnt think she has to. help!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Let her know how you truly feel. Example:

You: "Hey, I don't really appreciate you telling the WHOLE WORLD about our secrets, especially MY secrets. I mean, I feel like I'm dating your mom FFS! I don't think I will be able to trust you if you keep it up, I mean, if you would share MY secrets with the world, what stops you from cheating on me?!?!?"

Try that out if no one else gives advice. Good luck mate
 

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Rocko said:
Let her know how you truly feel. Example:

You: "Hey, I don't really appreciate you telling the WHOLE WORLD about our secrets, especially MY secrets. I mean, I feel like I'm dating your mom FFS! I don't think I will be able to trust you if you keep it up, I mean, if you would share MY secrets with the world, what stops you from cheating on me?!?!?"

Try that out if no one else gives advice. Good luck mate

I second this.if she has trouble keeping even a few things,like when you shower,act stupid,or have sex,what is keeping her from keeping the sex with just you.Just sit her down one day,and tell her how you feel about it.If she starts freaking out about it,i would have to say NEXT!
 

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k. thanks for the info guys. actually, thats exaclty what i said (except for the cheating part) and she thinks its justified and normal. i talked to her best friend and even she is siding with me! i really dont want to next her, but if you guys really think so...
 

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people again said:
k. thanks for the info guys. actually, thats exaclty what i said (except for the cheating part) and she thinks its justified and normal. i talked to her best friend and even she is siding with me! i really dont want to next her, but if you guys really think so...
Its of course hard to ditch someone you like a lot. But if she wont stop saying what you do, not worth it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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best thread since the last couple "hey this 10 year old chick makes me hot what do i do" threads.
 

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I was talking to a girl like this. It was twlight-zone-esque. She told her Mom everything. It was freaky. Young (HS) girls like to do this. SO LAME.
 

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I had a girl who did this to her mom....when I was selling pills. Her dad was a cop... all it takes is one argument, and her ass could have had me in prison for years... needless to say, she got dropped.
 

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yea, her mom AND dad are cops :p it doesnt matter, 'cause i just broke it up today.
 

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people again said:
yea, her mom AND dad are cops :p it doesnt matter, 'cause i just broke it up today.

damn , i would of had one of my friends say to her , hey people again said you love to take it in the ass and you scream like a demon :crackup: bonus points would be to say this in front of other people

she wouldnt take too kindly to this , and you would say , hey this might teach you a lesson not to tell the world about our business
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dannowillbookem

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this girl i was hanging out with told her mom i was getting into buddhism and i didnt like that so much. chicks talk alot and they need fuel to burn.
 

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i totally agree. it felt like i had no secrets, like there was not "me". even tho the sex was excelent, im glad im out :p
 

i am me

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crazy. id be like "hey, if this doesnt stop, were gonna hav to split up cus i dont want my business out there for everyone to see" then act on wutever she said next
 

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talk about beating a dead thread... um dead?

he already said he broke it off with the chick... so lets all tell our stories that have nothing to do with the thread.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Who would have thought that a thread could expand and that a discussion could have place on a discussion forum.
 

dannowillbookem

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seriously likretsam what the fucck is going on here...and it has to do with girls. gay beans there.
 

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Next time she does it just get in her face and be like "Ay yo f*ck yo mama this ain't yo mama business shawtie, it's just me and you. If you ain't wit it like dat then bust a move then."

:)
 
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