"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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she tells her mom EVERYTHING

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my girlfriend tells her mom everything.

she tells her when we have sex
she tells her when i do something stupid
she tells her when i TAKE A SHOWER
she tells her every little detail of MY life

and the worst part is, she never asks me if i think its ok for her to tell her these things. even if they are EXTREMELY embarassing to me, she tells her.

she also tells all her friends everything

i told her that i think a couple should have some secrets between them. they should have some things that are just their own. but she didnt listen

what do i do? i like her and all, but it feels like im dating her mom, also. i dont really wanna dump her, but she just doesnt listen to me. i tell her to ask me before she tells **** to her mom about me, but she doesnt think she has to. help!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Let her know how you truly feel. Example:

You: "Hey, I don't really appreciate you telling the WHOLE WORLD about our secrets, especially MY secrets. I mean, I feel like I'm dating your mom FFS! I don't think I will be able to trust you if you keep it up, I mean, if you would share MY secrets with the world, what stops you from cheating on me?!?!?"

Try that out if no one else gives advice. Good luck mate
 

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Rocko said:
Let her know how you truly feel. Example:

You: "Hey, I don't really appreciate you telling the WHOLE WORLD about our secrets, especially MY secrets. I mean, I feel like I'm dating your mom FFS! I don't think I will be able to trust you if you keep it up, I mean, if you would share MY secrets with the world, what stops you from cheating on me?!?!?"

Try that out if no one else gives advice. Good luck mate

I second this.if she has trouble keeping even a few things,like when you shower,act stupid,or have sex,what is keeping her from keeping the sex with just you.Just sit her down one day,and tell her how you feel about it.If she starts freaking out about it,i would have to say NEXT!
 

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k. thanks for the info guys. actually, thats exaclty what i said (except for the cheating part) and she thinks its justified and normal. i talked to her best friend and even she is siding with me! i really dont want to next her, but if you guys really think so...
 

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people again said:
k. thanks for the info guys. actually, thats exaclty what i said (except for the cheating part) and she thinks its justified and normal. i talked to her best friend and even she is siding with me! i really dont want to next her, but if you guys really think so...
Its of course hard to ditch someone you like a lot. But if she wont stop saying what you do, not worth it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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best thread since the last couple "hey this 10 year old chick makes me hot what do i do" threads.
 

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I was talking to a girl like this. It was twlight-zone-esque. She told her Mom everything. It was freaky. Young (HS) girls like to do this. SO LAME.
 

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I had a girl who did this to her mom....when I was selling pills. Her dad was a cop... all it takes is one argument, and her ass could have had me in prison for years... needless to say, she got dropped.
 

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yea, her mom AND dad are cops :p it doesnt matter, 'cause i just broke it up today.
 

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people again said:
yea, her mom AND dad are cops :p it doesnt matter, 'cause i just broke it up today.

damn , i would of had one of my friends say to her , hey people again said you love to take it in the ass and you scream like a demon :crackup: bonus points would be to say this in front of other people

she wouldnt take too kindly to this , and you would say , hey this might teach you a lesson not to tell the world about our business
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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this girl i was hanging out with told her mom i was getting into buddhism and i didnt like that so much. chicks talk alot and they need fuel to burn.
 

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i totally agree. it felt like i had no secrets, like there was not "me". even tho the sex was excelent, im glad im out :p
 

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crazy. id be like "hey, if this doesnt stop, were gonna hav to split up cus i dont want my business out there for everyone to see" then act on wutever she said next
 

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talk about beating a dead thread... um dead?

he already said he broke it off with the chick... so lets all tell our stories that have nothing to do with the thread.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who would have thought that a thread could expand and that a discussion could have place on a discussion forum.
 

dannowillbookem

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seriously likretsam what the fucck is going on here...and it has to do with girls. gay beans there.
 

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Next time she does it just get in her face and be like "Ay yo f*ck yo mama this ain't yo mama business shawtie, it's just me and you. If you ain't wit it like dat then bust a move then."

:)
 
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