Learning Curve
Master Don Juan
As the title states i have a chick i have been dating for around 5 months.
Now the thing is my game has been tight and I know it. Never overchasing, let her reach out, all that stuff.
So I will get to the latest part.
This past two weeks we have been together non-stop as I sold my car and I was using her car, and I'm waiting for a new one to arrive. I have arranged to work from home from my company as she does work from home too.
Now on Sunday I'm flying to Dubai for a week on a business trip.
Suddenly yesterday she went cold. Sex has decreased the past three days and when i asked her whats up yesterday she literally told me nothing.
We were laying on the couch, she was silent and went to bed without a talk.
She was also on her phone most of the time on-off which is not a typical behavior from her. Today in the morning i took the cab to go to work as i did not want her to drive me as i wanted to clear my head before i act on this sudden behavior change.
She told me in the morning "Why did you not wake me up? i can take you with my car" i told her "it's fine, i will go with a cab". She told me "as you wish"
Of-course I'm aware to do nothing so don't start with that. Today is my birthday party, she will be with me in my house with my friends and some of her girlfriends.
Usually, she texts me while I'm at work on skype with different stuff showing her affection and now is pure silence. Of-course i have not reached out and i will not. This has been solid for 5 months of her texting me while I'm at work or generally speaking her affection was on the 90% i would say.
Now she texted me this morning to tell me "I will pick you up from work this afternoon" i told her "sure" and i left it there.
I know that any neediness or reaction to this can cause me to loose my frame and i don't want that.
Any inputs are appreciated.
Now the thing is my game has been tight and I know it. Never overchasing, let her reach out, all that stuff.
So I will get to the latest part.
This past two weeks we have been together non-stop as I sold my car and I was using her car, and I'm waiting for a new one to arrive. I have arranged to work from home from my company as she does work from home too.
Now on Sunday I'm flying to Dubai for a week on a business trip.
Suddenly yesterday she went cold. Sex has decreased the past three days and when i asked her whats up yesterday she literally told me nothing.
We were laying on the couch, she was silent and went to bed without a talk.
She was also on her phone most of the time on-off which is not a typical behavior from her. Today in the morning i took the cab to go to work as i did not want her to drive me as i wanted to clear my head before i act on this sudden behavior change.
She told me in the morning "Why did you not wake me up? i can take you with my car" i told her "it's fine, i will go with a cab". She told me "as you wish"
Of-course I'm aware to do nothing so don't start with that. Today is my birthday party, she will be with me in my house with my friends and some of her girlfriends.
Usually, she texts me while I'm at work on skype with different stuff showing her affection and now is pure silence. Of-course i have not reached out and i will not. This has been solid for 5 months of her texting me while I'm at work or generally speaking her affection was on the 90% i would say.
Now she texted me this morning to tell me "I will pick you up from work this afternoon" i told her "sure" and i left it there.
I know that any neediness or reaction to this can cause me to loose my frame and i don't want that.
Any inputs are appreciated.